04/23/2026
This photo of Venerable and is beyond precious! It’s a cause for happiness - enjoy! 😊❤️
For the past few months we have been engaging in Dharma contemplations on Wednesdays! Today’s discussion went so well we’d like to share it with you. We encourage you to be with this passage in a heartfelt way - Take the contemplation and allow it to lead you to new levels of insight. How can this shape your practice from now on? What might you need to refine or let go of? What does it mean to exchange self with others?
“If the wish for awakening does not genuinely arise within my own heart, how could it ever truly extend to others? If I turn away from my own suffering, ignore it, or meet it with indifference, then the suffering of others will remain distant and abstract, something I speak of but do not feel. Therefore, I begin here: acknowledging my own longing to be free from pain, confusion, and fear—not as a selfish act, but as the ground of understanding. Just as I wish for happiness and freedom, so too do all beings, without exception. In this shared condition there is no real separation. Seeing this, I train my mind to exchange self and other, to loosen the tight grip of ‘me’ and ‘mine,’ and to let concern widen naturally. From this recognition, bodhicitta is not forced or fabricated—it grows, steadily and sincerely, as the heartfelt wish that all beings, me included, may be free from suffering and awaken to boundless compassion and wisdom.”
Shantideva and the spirit of the Bodhicaryavatara