04/29/2026
28 Apr 26
Fragile: Handle With Care
Do you remember when God said, “Let us make man…”? He reached down and took the dust of the ground to use to make humankind.
Dust…dirt…clay.
I don’t know if you’ve ever made pottery or anything similar. But one of the first things you’ll find out about anything made from clay is that it is very fragile. When being shipped to you, they even stamp on the box: FRAGILE-HANDLE WITH CARE.
But we humans, though made of dirt or clay, did not come with a ‘FRAGILE’ stamp on us.
We came with the Word of God that tells us to love the Lord our God with all our heart and then to love our neighbor as we do ourselves.
Because when we love God and love ourselves, we will know how to love—how to handle -- the “pottery”, the “clay vessels” of humankind that we encounter every day.
But this assumes that we love ourselves. Many people don’t…hence the current shape of this world.
I have heard preachers preach, “You just love your lil’ … self!” And they would spit the words out as though that was something to be despised. But when you learned more about the preacher, you learned that they did not even know how to treat their own spouse.
So, it was obvious they did not love themselves.
We cannot love others without first learning how to love ourselves.
So, until a person learns to love themselves, they will never know how to love you—how to handle the delicate piece of pottery that you are.
And if you are in a relationship with someone who does not love themselves, you must decide whether or not you’re okay with that.
No one else can make that decision for you.
Genesis 2:7 (KJV)
7 And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.
Matthew 22:37-39 (KJV)
37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
38 This is the first and great commandment.
39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.