09/01/2026
** Good News From Pastor Steve | September 1, 2026 **
Dear fellow redeemed,
Mistakes, bad decisions, disagreements, arguments, fights, domestic disputes, neglect, abuse, exploitation, assaults, murders...
We all have them! And I'm sure I can add words to that list of things that cause troubles and conflicts in our families, friendships, at our work places, neighborhoods, and just about every way that people interact.
So when this Sunday's Gospel Reading tells us, "If your brother or sister sins against you..." you can be very sure that it will happen, today, tomorrow and every day of life in this world! "For all have sinned" (Romans 3:20).
James 4:1-2 says it this way: "Those conflicts and disputes among you, where do they come from? Do they not come from your cravings that are at war within you? You want something and do not have; so you commit murder. And you covet something and cannot obtain it; so you engage in disputes and conflicts."
So what is the answer to all of this? Avoiding other people? Only being with those who agree with you? Defending what we think and believe? No matter what others think or do? Fighting? Going to war with our enemies?
The Scriptures present a different path: one of love and prayers for all, including our enemies; seeking repentance and reconciliation, forgiveness, patience, persistence in communicating love and offering forgiveness, peace and hope.
That is the goal of Jesus' words in Matthew 18, when he begins with "If your brother or sister sins against you...". It isn't to make sure that person knows of his/her sin (though it may include that). it isn't to make sure they confess and repent (though that will usually be happening). It isn't to exclude them from your community (though sometimes that may happen. But if so, then the goal is always, always to work toward reconciliation). As we see in the reading from Romans 13, and from all of Scripture, love is the overarching theme of all our interaction with people.
An important point here to make as we consider times of conflict and how to resolve the problems between people is this: repentance, forgiveness, reconciliation, love, all takes time. In a world of instant gratification and everything-needs-to-happen-right-now, the work of human community is a life-long process. We plant seeds, we nurture the growth, we prune when necessary, we wait, and we encounter storms and setbacks, and we start over again, and it goes on and on, as long as God gives us!
May the Lord of all work with us, and walk with us as we love one another, as God has loved each and every one of us.
Your brother in Christ,
- Pastor Steve