08/03/2026
“I said I was sorry but she (or he) still won’t forgive me. Shouldn’t that be enough?” I’ve heard that a lot in life. I’ve also seen a lot of children, even some adults, who say they’re sorry only because someone made them or so they won’t get in trouble. Saying your sorry doesn’t always fix the problem. In fact, it can make the problem worse if the person who apologized continues to do the same hurtful thing again and again. Actions speak louder than words. Why would you continue to do the same hurtful thing over and over again if you know that it hurts someone, especially someone you say you love? Saying we’re sorry with no change in behavior means nothing to the people we hurt.
Admitting we’re wrong, saying we’re sorry, doesn’t carry a lot of weight with God, either. It’s good to feel remorse over our sin but He also wants us to change. That’s what repentance is. A change of mind that causes a change of heart that results in a change of behavior. We walk in a new life that pleases Him.
At first, my repentance may start as a sincere desire to change. Addictions, destructive habits, deep-rooted sin, and unrecognized or generational sin that we think is “normal life” can take time to change. Maybe not for some people. But, for most of us, it does. Still, repentance includes a sincere desire to leave the old life and walk in the new. We don’t change to be forgiven. We change, with God’s help, because we’re forgiven.
We’ll talk about repentance this Sunday as we look at Nehemiah 10. I hope you’ll read ahead and pray over God’s Word. I encourage you to prepare yourself for worship, eager to hear from the One True God. Have a great week and bring a friend to church. There’s always room for one more. See you on Sunday!
In Christ,
David