Hope Covenant Couples

02/12/2026

Hey couples! Great reminder. ♥️

“Be devoted to one another in love.’ — Romans 12:10

Less scrolling. More holding. 💕♥️

10/01/2024

A word of encouragement to extend grace and to love yourself as Christ Loves you so your spouse can be a recipient of that. ♥️Happy Tuesday couples!

Ah…Let’s talk about the Golden Rule, the Love your neighbor as yourself verse, or as some of the earlier theologians proposed

“What you wish upon others you wish on yourselves”.

The essence of the Golden Rule is you treat others based on your reservoir of content of emotions aka character.

Christ came into your picture at your worst time. Remember while you were sinning He died for you.

So all that to say…⬇️⬇️⬇️

08/29/2024

Some encouragement for you tonight! Do your “Homework” 😉

When a picture is worth a thousand words.

I’m told that physiology determines psychology aka motion determines emotion.

Just stepping out and moving towards healing will create a momentum towards wholeness.

A 2021 experiment by James Coan, a clinical psychologist and director of the Virginia Affective Neuroscience Laboratory at the University of Virginia asserts that holding hands exerts striking effects on our emotional state. It can help lower blood pressure, reduce pain and buffer stressful experiences.

So…doesn’t matter what’s happening, motion your way to your spouse’s proximity and hold their hand. Let the motion trigger the emotion.

Now motion yourself towards the button and share this post.

Thank you to Donna and Dave Hanshumaker
for being the perfect models for this post. ❤️





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08/23/2022

Spiritual Habit for Married Couples: Forgiveness

“Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.”—Colossians 3:13 (ESV)

Martin Luther King, Jr. once said, “Forgiveness is not an occasional act, it is a constant attitude.” In marriage, this is sometimes hard to do when we’ve been wounded by the one we love. Sometimes, the wound runs so deep it may feel like it will never heal, and yet, forgiveness is expected. Other times, the offense is a constant replay of a hurtful act, and again, forgiveness is expected. Or it may be a one-time offense that’s easy to forgive and move on from. The act of forgiveness is a skill and tool that is constantly being utilized in marriage. But, how can couples be ready to forgive and be truly authentic in painful moments?

In today’s passage, we read we’re to bear “with one another.” This is a profound statement as it shows us it’s an attitude of virtue. It’s an act of doing—an action of “putting on” godly behavior and “putting off” sinful behavior. This is how the act of forgiveness can be built up and become a permanent fixture in our hearts and mind. It’s like training a muscle; if you don’t use it, you’ll lose it. It becomes a deep-embedded godly attitude, so when the time comes to forgive it flows out without hesitation.

Forgiveness is not easy to master, but it’s a virtue worth mastering. It allows for moments to honor one another in marriage and ultimately bring glory to God. Through forgiveness, we learn how to be better at loving each other as well as the attitude of virtue: of putting on and putting off.

Pause: What comes to mind when you think of the attitude of forgiveness?

Practice: Challenge yourself to study what the Bible says about putting on godly behavior and putting off sinful behavior. Once you have this understanding, demonstrate it through acts of forgiveness in your marriage.

Pray: Heavenly Father, we come before You with an attitude of thanksgiving and praise. Thank You for demonstrating the ultimate act of forgiveness by dying on the cross for our sins. Help us to be good ambassadors as we show and give forgiveness to each other in those painful and hurtful moments in our marriage. Thank You for giving us the tools on how to bear with one another and learn how to put on and put off. We pray this in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen