09/14/2026
I had to learn that loving people and giving people access are two different things.
I can love you and not tell you everything. I can honor you without allowing you to influence my decisions. I can forgive you and still recognize that our relationship cannot return to what it was.
That isn’t bitterness. That’s wisdom.
Your heart can remain open while your boundaries remain healthy.
Everybody deserves unconditional love. Everybody does not require unconditional access.
Protecting what God entrusted to you is part of living the good life.