06/09/2026
There's something deeply human about wanting to coast. We work hard, we make progress, and then we think, "That's enough. I've arrived." But what if God's invitation to us is so much bigger than we imagine? What if settling for "good enough" means missing out on the abundant life Jesus came to bring?
God's Will for Your Life
We spend so much time wondering about God's will. Should I take this job? Move to that city? Marry this person? These are good questions, but they're not the primary question. Paul makes it crystal clear in 1 Thessalonians 4:3: "For this is God's will, your sanctification."
God's will for your life is that you would know, love, and become like His son, Jesus.
This isn't about checking boxes or following rules. From the very beginning, in Genesis 1:26-27, God said, "Let us make man in our image." You exist to reflect God. That's your purpose. When people hear you talk, see you love, watch you forgive, they should catch a glimpse of who God is. Everything else in your life serves that purpose.
The question isn't whether God has a plan for you. He does. The question is: are you still pursuing it, or have you settled?
The Power to Actually Change
Here's the good news that changes everything: you're not doing this alone. In Ephesians 1, Paul prays that we would know "the immeasurable greatness of God's power" at work in us. Immeasurable. You can't put a cap on it. You can't quantify it.
When you trust Christ, you receive the Spirit of the risen Savior living in you. That's not religious language. That's power. Real power to actually change, to actually grow, to actually become more like Jesus.
Think about it this way: if Peter Parker gets bitten by a radioactive spider, something fundamentally changes within him. He has new power, new abilities. But he still has to learn how to use them. He has to participate with what's been given to him.
The same is true for us. God gives us everything we need through His Spirit. Now we get to participate. We get to take steps of obedience. We get to practice self-control, knowing that the Spirit of self-control already lives in us.
Two Practical Places to Grow
Paul gets beautifully practical in 1 Thessalonians 4. He doesn't just say "be holy." He shows us where holiness happens in everyday life.
Sexual Integrity
God designed s*x, and He designed it to be shared between one man and one woman in the context of lifelong marriage. This isn't a boring rule from an outdated book. This is the Creator telling us how His creation works best.
Our s*xuality is meant to reflect the image of a covenant-making, covenant-keeping God. When a husband and wife, the same yet different, unite as one and keep their promises to each other, they display something beautiful about God's character to the watching world.
Paul's instruction is simple: "Keep away from s*xual immorality" (1 Thessalonians 4:3). Not "see how close you can get." Not "flirt with the line." Keep away.
Proverbs 6:27 asks, "Can a man embrace fire and his clothes not be burned?" We all know not to grab a burning log with our bare hands. Yet with s*xual temptation, we think we can play with fire and not get burned.
You know that person who makes you feel different than everyone else. You know those late nights scrolling when you're tired and alone. You know what shows lead your thoughts where they shouldn't go. The call isn't to see how close you can get. It's to keep away.
Work Ethic
Here's the sharp turn: another way we grow in holiness is by going to work. In 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12, Paul encourages believers to "work with your own hands" so that you "may behave properly in the presence of outsiders and not be dependent on anyone."
God worked for six days in creation, then rested. He created a world where we could flourish, and then He invited Adam and Eve to work with Him. Work existed before sin entered the picture. God created us to work because He is a God who works.
When we're able to work and we don't, we fail to reflect a God who works. We fail to serve the good of others. God didn't create the world because He was bored or needed something. He created to give, to share His glory with us. When we work, we participate in that giving. We contribute to the flourishing of our families and neighbors.
Whether you're in an office, a classroom, a home with young children, or a volunteer role, are you working to the glory of God? Are you contributing to the flourishing of those around you?
No Condemnation, Only Invitation
Maybe you're reading this and feeling the weight of where you've fallen short. Sexual sin. Laziness. Coasting in your faith. The guilt and shame can be paralyzing.
But Romans 8:1 reminds us: "There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus."
Picture a toddler learning to walk. They pull themselves up, wobble forward, take two or three steps, and fall down. Does anyone yell at them? Call them stupid? No. We cheer. We get down on their level and say, "Come on! Get back up! You can do this!"
Our God is a good Father. He knows we're going to stumble. He's not here to condemn you. He's here to encourage you: "Come on, get back up. You took five steps last time. Can you take six today?"
The Question Before You
So here's the question: Are you still growing, or have you settled?
Maybe you came out of the gate strong in your faith, but now you're just coasting. Maybe life got busy with career or kids, and spiritual growth fell off the radar. Maybe you're retired and think you've done your part.
Unless you're perfectly like Jesus, there's room to grow. There's more ahead. More joy. More abundance. More of knowing and reflecting the God who created you.
Don't settle for less than all Christ came to bring you. Keep reaching. Keep striving. Keep taking the next step.
Today is a new day. The race isn't over. God is cheering you on, inviting you into more of His presence, more of His likeness, more of the life He designed you for.
What's your next step?