06/02/2026
What if hope in a difficult relationship doesn’t begin with fixing the other person, but with learning to see differently?
We all carry stories about the people who have hurt, disappointed, or exhausted us. Over time, those stories can harden into assumptions that keep us bracing for more pain. But beholding is a different way of seeing.
Beholding means noticing another person through the eyes of love rather than fear, frustration, or suspicion. It’s choosing curiosity over certainty. It’s remaining open to the possibility that God may still be at work in places that feel stuck or hopeless.
Sometimes the first sign of healing is not that the relationship changes immediately, but that something begins to change in us.
Finding Hope in Your Hardest Relationships: A Beholding Workbook.
Coming June 16.