Glenwood Church of Christ

Glenwood Church of Christ The Glenwood Arkansas Church of Christ is a vibrant congregation of the Lord's body in central Arkansas. Please join us for worship if you can.

Day 4: Choosing Others FirstDevotionalSelfishness whispers that our needs, wants, and preferences should come first. It ...
06/18/2026

Day 4: Choosing Others First

Devotional

Selfishness whispers that our needs, wants, and preferences should come first. It convinces us we deserve to win arguments, control decisions, and have things our way. But God calls us to a radically different approach: putting others before ourselves, especially in marriage. This doesn't mean becoming a doormat or losing your identity. It means choosing to consider your spouse's needs as important as your own. It means asking "How can I serve?" instead of "What's in it for me?" It means being willing to compromise, sacrifice, and sometimes give up what you want for the good of your relationship. When both partners embrace this mindset, something beautiful happens. Instead of two people fighting for their own interests, you have two people working together to bless each other. This creates a cycle of generosity and love that strengthens the marriage and honors God. The key is remembering this choice isn't based on whether your spouse deserves it or has earned it. It's based on God's call to love sacrificially, just as Christ loved us.

Bible Verse

"Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." - Philippians 2:3-4 (ESV)

Reflection Question

In what specific area of your marriage do you need to stop insisting on your own way and start considering your spouse's needs first?

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Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit. Do what? Do nothing. Don't post on Facebook out of selfishness. Don't try to win the argument out of selfishness.

Prayer

Lord, transform my selfish heart and help me genuinely care about my spouse's needs and interests. Give me the strength to choose love over selfishness every day. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Day 3: The Scoreboard MentalityDevotionalMany marriages operate like competitive sports, with each spouse keeping detail...
06/17/2026

Day 3: The Scoreboard Mentality

Devotional

Many marriages operate like competitive sports, with each spouse keeping detailed mental records of wins, losses, and grievances. We remember every slight, every forgotten anniversary, every time our partner didn't meet our expectations. We treat marriage like an Olympic event where someone has to win and someone has to lose. But here's the problem: in marriage, when one person loses, everyone loses. The relationship suffers, intimacy dies, and both partners end up feeling defeated. Keeping score destroys the very unity that marriage is designed to create. The solution isn't to stop caring about fairness or accountability. It's to stop competing and start collaborating. When we release our need to win every argument and prove every point, we create space for genuine partnership. Love doesn't keep a record of wrongs - it chooses to forgive, forget, and move forward together. Breaking the scoreboard mentality requires daily choices to extend grace instead of keeping track of failures. It means being the first to apologize, the first to forgive, and the first to seek reconciliation.

Bible Verse

"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." - 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (ESV)

Reflection Question

What "scores" have you been keeping in your marriage that you need to release and forgive?

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Love according to Paul and Corinthians keeps no record of wrong. Stop keeping score, let it go.

Prayer

God, help me stop keeping score and start extending the same grace to my spouse that You've shown me. Teach me to love without conditions or expectations. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Day 2: God's Design, Not Man's IdeaDevotionalMarriage wasn't invented by governments, churches, or cultural traditions. ...
06/16/2026

Day 2: God's Design, Not Man's Idea

Devotional

Marriage wasn't invented by governments, churches, or cultural traditions. When Jesus was questioned about divorce, He pointed back to the very beginning - to God's original design in Genesis. Marriage is a divine institution, created by God Himself as a sacred covenant between two people who commit to becoming "one flesh." This understanding changes everything. Your marriage certificate isn't just a legal document; it represents a covenant backed by the Creator of the universe. When we grasp this truth, we stop treating marriage as a contract we can break when things get difficult and start seeing it as a sacred commitment that reflects God's faithfulness. Understanding marriage as God's design gives us hope during difficult seasons. We're not just trying to make a human relationship work; we're participating in something holy that God Himself established. This perspective provides the foundation we need to weather storms and build something beautiful together.

Bible Verse

"Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." - Genesis 2:24 (ESV)

Reflection Question

How does viewing your marriage as God's sacred design rather than a human contract change your approach to current challenges?

Quote

Your paper is worth something because it's backed by God.

Prayer

Father, thank You for creating marriage as a reflection of Your love and faithfulness. Help us honor the sacred covenant You've established between us. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Day 1: The Mirror of MarriageDevotionalMarriage has a way of revealing who we really are. Within months of saying "I do,...
06/15/2026

Day 1: The Mirror of Marriage

Devotional

Marriage has a way of revealing who we really are. Within months of saying "I do," the fairy tale begins to fade, and we discover that our greatest enemy isn't our spouse's quirks or habits - it's our own selfishness. When conflicts arise, our natural tendency is to create mental lists of our partner's faults while remaining blind to our own contributions to the problem. This pattern is so common that after decades of counseling, therapists rarely hear someone say, "I'm here because I'm selfish." Instead, they hear detailed accounts of what the other person is doing wrong. But here's the truth: the person sitting across from you isn't the problem - the person in the mirror is. Recognizing our own selfishness is the first step toward healing. When we stop pointing fingers and start examining our hearts, we create space for genuine transformation. Marriage becomes a tool God uses to refine our character, teaching us to love sacrificially rather than selfishly.

Bible Verse

"What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you?" - James 4:1 (ESV)

Reflection Question

When you think about your last disagreement with your spouse, what selfish desires or expectations were driving your response?

Quote

This message is not about your spouse. It's about you sitting in the seat you're in.

Prayer

Lord, help me see my own heart clearly and recognize the ways selfishness damages my marriage. Give me the courage to take responsibility for my part in our conflicts. In Jesus’ name, amen.

06/14/2026

What if the biggest threat to your marriage isn't what you think it is? After 25 years of counseling couples, one issue stands above all others as the primary destroyer of marital unity. It's not communication problems or compatibility issues - it's something much closer to home. Are you ready to discover what's really killing marriages and learn God's solution for building unbreakable unity? (Sermon from 6-14-26)

Day 5: Nothing Too Hard for GodDevotionalWhen God asked Abraham and Sarah, "Is anything too hard for the Lord?" He wasn'...
06/12/2026

Day 5: Nothing Too Hard for God

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When God asked Abraham and Sarah, "Is anything too hard for the Lord?" He wasn't looking for an answer—He was making a statement. No problem is beyond His power to solve, no relationship too broken for Him to heal, and no marriage too damaged for Him to restore. This truth should transform how we approach marriage difficulties. Instead of seeing insurmountable problems, we can see opportunities for God to demonstrate His power. Instead of focusing on human limitations, we can trust in divine possibilities. The same God who gave Abraham and Sarah a child in their old age can breathe new life into your marriage. But here's the key: God's power is most effective when He's truly at the center of the relationship. If your marriage is all about you—your needs, your timeline, your solutions—then hope is limited. But when God leads the way, there's always hope and always a path forward. Marriage is hard work, but it's worth the effort. God's design for one man and one woman in covenant relationship is the greatest earthly institution He created. Don't let the world convince you to give up and move on. Instead, invite God to show you what He can do when nothing is too hard for Him. Your marriage can recover, trust can be rebuilt, and love can be renewed. With God, all things are possible.

Bible Verse

'Is anything too hard for the Lord? At the appointed time I will return to you, about this time next year, and Sarah shall have a son.' - Genesis 18:14 (ESV)

Reflection Question

What specific marriage challenge do you need to surrender to God, trusting that nothing is too hard for Him to handle?

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Is anything too hard for the Lord?

Prayer

Lord, I believe that nothing is too hard for You. Take control of our marriage and show us Your power to heal, restore, and transform. In Jesus’ name, amen.

06/11/2026

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Day 4: Hope Against HopeDevotionalThere are seasons in marriage when hope seems impossible. The problems feel too big, t...
06/11/2026

Day 4: Hope Against Hope

Devotional

There are seasons in marriage when hope seems impossible. The problems feel too big, the hurt runs too deep, and the relationship appears beyond repair. In these moments, it's easy to believe that giving up is the only option. But God specializes in impossible situations. Abraham faced such a moment. At nearly 100 years old, with Sarah well past childbearing age, the promise of children seemed laughable. Yet Scripture tells us that "even when there was no reason for hope, Abraham kept hoping" (Romans 4:18 NLT). He chose to believe God's promise despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary. This is the kind of faith that transforms marriages. When feelings tell you it's over, faith reminds you of God's power to restore. When circumstances seem hopeless, faith holds onto the truth that nothing is too hard for the Lord. There's a crucial difference between feelings and facts, and the fact is that God can heal any marriage when both partners are willing to trust Him. Your marriage may feel dead, but God is the God of resurrection. You can re-earn trust, you can rekindle love, and you can restore broken relationships. Even after serious mistakes and deep wounds, God can put the pieces back together in ways that are stronger and more beautiful than before. Don't give up. Keep hoping, keep believing, and keep trusting that God's power is greater than your problems.

Bible Verse

“In hope he believed against hope, that he should become the father of many nations, as he had been told, ‘So shall your offspring be.’” - Romans 4:18 (ESV)

Reflection Question

What area of your marriage feels hopeless right now, and how can you choose to hope in God's power despite your feelings?

Quote

Even when there was no reason for hope, Abraham kept hoping, believing that he would become the father of many nations.

Prayer

God, when hope seems impossible, help me believe in Your power to restore and heal. Give me faith to trust You even when I can't see the way forward. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Day 3: Making God the True CenterDevotionalMany couples claim to have God at the center of their marriage, but what does...
06/10/2026

Day 3: Making God the True Center

Devotional

Many couples claim to have God at the center of their marriage, but what does that really mean? It's more than attending church together or saying grace before meals. A God-centered marriage means making Him the leader of your relationship and regularly seeking His will for your future together. This requires intentional effort. It means sitting down together and asking where God wants your life to go, what purpose He has for your marriage, and how you can serve Him as a team. It involves spending time in prayer together, not just during crises but as a regular practice that strengthens your bond with each other and with God. Too often, we only turn to God when our marriage is in trouble. But a truly God-centered marriage seeks His guidance in the good times too. When God is genuinely at the center, He leads the decision-making, shapes the priorities, and provides the wisdom needed to navigate both challenges and blessings. This kind of marriage requires sacrifice. It means turning off distractions, putting down phones, and investing real time in each other and in your relationship with God. But the investment is worth it because God's design for marriage is beautiful and fulfilling when we follow His lead. A God-centered marriage isn't perfect, but it's guided by perfect love and wisdom that can overcome any obstacle.

Bible Verse

“And he said, ‘I will certainly return to you about this time next year, and Sarah your wife shall have a son.’ And Sarah was listening at the tent door behind him.” - Genesis 18:10 (ESV)

Reflection Question

What practical steps can you take this week to make God more central to your marriage decisions and daily interactions?

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When I say make God the center of your life, I hope you realize I'm talking about you and your husband or wife or mate, whatever. You sit down and you spend, you decide where your life is going, what purpose is that going to be. All in the line of the will of God.

Prayer

Lord, help us make You the true center of our marriage. Guide our decisions and help us seek Your will in all things. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Day 2: The Danger of Taking ControlDevotionalWhen God's timing doesn't align with our expectations, it's tempting to tak...
06/09/2026

Day 2: The Danger of Taking Control

Devotional

When God's timing doesn't align with our expectations, it's tempting to take matters into our own hands. We become impatient with His process and decide we know better how to fix our problems. This is exactly what happened to Abraham and Sarah during their long wait for God's promise. Sarah's plan to have Abraham father a child through her servant Hagar seemed logical at the time. After all, they'd been waiting for years with no sign of God's promise being fulfilled. But their attempt to "help God along" created lasting conflict and pain that affected their family for generations. In marriage, we often make the same mistake. When our spouse doesn't change as quickly as we'd like, or when problems persist longer than we think they should, we try to become our own god. We manipulate, control, or force solutions that only make things worse. The truth is, God's timing is always better than our timing. He sees the bigger picture and knows exactly what needs to happen and when. Our job isn't to rush His process but to trust His wisdom and remain faithful during the waiting seasons. When you're tempted to take control of your marriage problems, remember that God is already at work. Your attempts to force change may actually hinder what He's trying to accomplish.

Bible Verse

“After these things the word of the Lord came to Abram in a vision: ‘Fear not, Abram, I am your shield; your reward shall be very great.’” - Genesis 15:1 (ESV)

Reflection Question

In what areas of your marriage are you trying to "help God along" instead of trusting His timing and process?

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This is the way it sometimes goes: “I try to help God along. I figure he's running a little late. I figure he just don't quite know what he's up to, so I’d better come up with my own plan because after all, I know what's best for myself.”

Prayer

Father, forgive me for trying to control what only You can change. Help me trust Your timing and rest in Your perfect plan. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Address

1300 Highway 70 W
Glenwood, AR
71943

Opening Hours

Wednesday 6pm - 7pm
Sunday 9:30am - 11:30am

Telephone

+18703563543

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