01/01/2024
SUNDAY THOUGHTS…
How powerful are our words? The Bible tells us that the power of life and death are literally in the tongue. So our worlds are extremely powerful. As we enter the new year, I’d like to submit to you that perhaps it’s time for Christians to be more careful with the use of some commonplace “Christianese” word phrases that I believe actually declare negative things—even though we mean to be positive. I believe these common phrases have the power to subconsciously distort our view of God in a negative, way over time—both to us as Christians and to non-believers who hear these words spoken.
The first phrase I believe Christians routinely misuse is when we say we need to “surrender to God”. Though I know the heart behind the message (because I’ve been a Christian most of my life and speak “Christianese” fluently), the word “surrender” in any other context is a term most often used where a battle occurs between combatants and the “loser” surrenders to the “winner”.
Try this exercise… search an online Bible (BLB.org, biblegateway.com, etc) for the word “surrender”. You won’t find it much at all in the Bible and will NEVER find it applied to our relationship with God. What you will find over and over again is a call for us to “submit ourselves to God”. The difference may seem like semantics but “submission” is a voluntary yielding to another’s authority. Unlike surrender, submission doesn’t imply being foes where one wins while the other loses. Does a wife “surrender” to her husband? Not in a healthy relationship! Does the Church “surrender” to a conquering Christ? No, when you swap the words in these verses it becomes clear how offensive the word ‘surrender' can actually be when used—especially to non-believers who are repeatedly told to “surrender to God”. What does that tell them about God?
God does not come at us as an enemy to defeat us. No, He calls to us, as a loving Father, to submit ourselves under His authority so He can train us to be like Him and to be the best version of ourselves. Doubt that? Read Hebrews 12! God wins not by defeating us but by helping us win at life! That happens in a loving relationship not a battle! Jesus said, “Come to me… and I will give you rest!” The words we choose to speak are important and we can unintentionally communicate a wrong view of our loving Father if we continue to speak out negative things to try to have positive meaning.
The other phrase I believe subtly distorts people’s view of a loving Father is to “be used by God.” Again, I understand the intent but to “be used” by someone in any other context is never a good thing. The subconscious connection made, not to mention what this phrase speaks to non-believers who don’t understand “Christianese”, is purely negative. To be “used by” somebody means to be manipulated by that person. Do you like it when people use you? What do you think of when you hear someone else say, “I feel like they were using me”?
Once again, I encourage you do a search for the words “use” or “used by” (or variants) and “God” together in Scripture and you won’t find it. God doesn’t use us or manipulate us. Though we DO want to be useful to the Lord (think… “noble vessels”), we see throughout Scripture that the Lord actually desires to partner with us. He empowers us to do the impossible when we voluntarily submit ourselves under His authority and work together with the Holy Spirit. Again, I know it may seem like purely semantics, but our words are far too powerful to keep using negative declarations for positive purposes.
May you be intentional in 2024 to “partner with” God as you “submit yourself” under His loving authority. May your declarations be something like, “I’m excited that the Lord has invited me to partner with Him in His Kingdom work because I’ve disciplined myself and made myself useful to the plans He has for my city.”
May the Holy Spirit show you any other ways you may be subtly undermining your relationship with Him and may you draw closer than ever to Jesus in this upcoming year. I pray that every powerful word your mouth speaks will bring the atmosphere and authority of Heaven into this realm.
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