12/28/2025
12/27/25
Reflection by Trish—Holy Family
Did you know you are part of a holy family? All families are holy, no matter what they look like or what their relationship with one another is. In every family there is a connection of love. Parents want what is best for their children. At the same time, all families have their problems and their struggles. This is where God is - in ordinary families.
God comes to us in the ordinary. God is present all the people around us, all of nature, and in the humdrum of our daily lives. That is one of the important messages in the story of Jesus’ birth.
Jesus was born just like every other baby, through hard labor, with all the pain and the mess. Mary’s body carried this baby for 9 months and then gave birth in the ordinary way. Prior to the birth, the family had traveled around 80 miles from Nazareth to Bethlehem, walking most of the way. They looked like any other family in the area.
Scripture says there were angels in the area. It does not say Joseph or Mary saw angels, as they focused on caring for the new baby. I do think whenever a new child enters the world, the parents hear angels singing. There is a song, or a whisper, in the hearts of the mother and father that says “This is a miracle! This is so special there are not words to describe this new creation!”
I have a beautiful small statue of Mary and Joseph with the child Jesus. When I look at it, I think of it as a depiction of any family. You can see the love shared between Mary and Joseph, leaning into each other as they gaze at the child Joseph is holding.
This family we read about in Scripture had many struggles. Before Jesus was 2 years old, they had to walk over 300 miles to Egypt. They would have known little about this country before they arrived. People spoke a different language, ate different foods, had a different religion, embraced different cultural practices, and I am sure viewed Joseph and Mary as outsiders. The holy family were ordinary people dislocated and struggling to assimilate, just trying to make a living.
When they returned to Nazareth, they initially had to rely on family and friends. It would have all been foreign to the child Jesus, even though he likely would have been embraced by relatives he did not know. Joseph and Mary had to trust in the unknown from the time of conception, through the birth, during their displacement, and then throughout each day of their ordinary lives as changes continued to happen.
God is with each of us in the mundane moments in life, the joyful moments of celebration, the heartwarming and humorous moments, and in times of great struggle. The Spirit of God never leaves us.
This is a good time to reflect on your family. Despite its faults, misunderstandings, and difficulties, what do you value about your family? Who is your family? What special connection do you have with members of your family? What have you gained by being in this family? What characteristics and values do you have from each of your parents? How has your family provided you with insights, strengths, or support?
Source of Our Being, Loving Parent
We need to take time to rest in your Presence
To grow in our ability to trust that you will be there
In the difficult and the good times.