09/08/2026
Sunday's Sermon...
Living in View of God’s Mercy (Romans 12:9-21)
As we work through the section on “practical Christian living” in Paul’s letter to the Roman Christians, remember that everything Paul says about how we are to live among Christians and non-Christians should be done “in view of God’s mercy.” (That’s how this section starts, in Romans 12:1.) It’s by God’s mercy that we’re saved, and mercy should be at the foundation of all our relationships with others, within the church and outside the church, even our enemies. Keep the foundational principle of mercy in mind as we read our text for today, Romans 12:9-21.
This section starts with the command: “Love must be sincere.” What does sincere love look like? As we know from 1 Corinthians 13, “Love does not boast. It is not proud. It does not dishonor others. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.” No matter what our spiritual gifts are, no matter how we are called to serve in the church or in the world, we’re to “be devoted to one another in love.”
I read several years ago that when people are looking for a church, when they go visit a church, their main concern will be, “Will I find real community here? Will people love me here?” If someone comes into this church, and they’re needy, or they’re a different color, or they’re struggling with sins or addictions, or their home life is in shambles—will we love them? Let’s make sure we do!
Although Paul spends most of this section looking at the horizontal relationships of our lives, how we interact with Christians and non-Christians around us, there’s still a vertical component too, in verses 11-12: “Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” Paul is picturing people who love others because they’re on fire for Christ. (The word translated “fervor” comes from the Greek word, ZAYO, which literally means boiling hot.)
How do we keep our fervor? Well, for one thing, our fervor is based on our hope, our confident expectation, that a future is coming where Christ will reign, and we will reign alongside him, over the new creation. That hope should be a source of joy no matter what our circumstances here. Because of that hope, we can be “patient in affliction.” The word “patient,” HOOPOMENO, means persevering with strength no matter what the pressure. And we’re to be “faithful in prayer,” knowing that the Holy Spirit is praying with us (Romans 8:26), and that God really does hear and respond to our prayers.
After that spiritual advice, Paul returns to discussing our interactions with other Christians. We are to share with the Lord’s people who are in need. (Even as he wrote Romans, Paul was taking up a collection among the Greek Christians for the relief of Jewish Christians in Jerusalem.)
And we’re to practice hospitality. Today, for us, that usually means inviting church members to your home for a meal, or going out to eat and buying them a meal. But it might also mean letting a believer move in with you for a while, or hosting a missionary. Christian missionaries back then were often going to new towns, and these missionaries usually didn’t have much money. So if they could find Christians who would house them for a while, that would facilitate the spread of the gospel. (Paul was planning on stopping in Rome on his way to Spain, so he would need the Romans’ hospitality!)
As an evangelism aside, I got into a brief online discussion one time with a guy who said that Paul seemed to have little knowledge about the teachings of Jesus or the life of Jesus presented in the gospels. I disagreed. For example, Paul’s account of the Last Supper in 1 Corinthians 11 is very close to Luke’s account of the Last Supper (as you would expect if Paul was a traveling companion of Luke). Also, this section of Romans 12 sounds like a paraphrase or summary of Jesus’s teaching in the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5-7. Also, Paul knew all about Jesus’ death on the cross, and his resurrection from the dead.
Paul had different purposes in writing his letters than giving an account of the life of Jesus. Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John were already doing that! But I think it’s clear that Paul knew Jesus pretty well, and we should be prepared to give an answer to people who say that Paul’s Christ is different from the Jesus of the gospels!
In verses 14-21, Paul encourages Christians to cultivate three main virtues: forgiveness of our enemies, being humble, and trying to live in peace with all people.
Being humble means we willingly associate with and willingly serve all kinds of people, even people who are poor, or a different color, or who are struggling with sin.
Trying to live in peace with all people means refusing to engage in tit-for-tat fights; it means forgiving people. Sometimes Christians are genuinely wronged, maybe financially defrauded by another person who claims to be a Christian. It probably would be better to take the financial loss and move on than to sue that person in a court of law. We want to be models of Christ in the church and to the world!
When people harm us, we’re to forgive them and pray for them. Don’t try to take revenge. Leave the matter of justice ultimately up to God.
I read a great story about Dolly Parton last week. She was a committed Christian, and she tried to live out the values we’ve been talking about this morning. She first came to national prominence when a successful country singer, Porter Wagoner, invited her to be part of his television show. They sang together from 1967 to 1974, when Dolly decided to leave the partnership and become a solo artist. But Porter said she was still under contract to him, and he sued her. He wouldn’t release her from her contract until she paid him $1m. She borrowed the money and paid the obligation, and she said it took her years to get that debt paid off. That really strained their relationship, although Dolly wrote a song about how she would always love him. (You’ve probably heard the Whitney Houston version of that song.)
Eventually, Porter Wagoner fell on hard times and offered his music catalog for sale to try to get out of debt. By that time, Dolly had the resources to buy the catalog, and she did. And then she turned around and gave the music rights back to Porter for free, as a gesture of forgiveness and gratitude! And later, when Porter was dying, Dolly went and helped take care of him until he passed.
That’s what Paul is talking about in this passage. Be grateful to people. Forgive people. Try to live at peace with people, even if it costs you something.
V. 26 is interesting: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” The quote is from Proverbs 25, and the “heap burning coals on his head” is apparently an ancient image of one who has felt a sharp pang of guilt and is sincerely demonstrating repentance over a wrong they have committed.
In other words, as we respond to people with love instead of revenge, with charity instead of resentment, with generosity instead of bitterness, people may be so surprised and so convicted that they repent!
As you interact with your neighbors and coworkers and family members, they should see a humility and a mercy and a generosity in you that draws them to Christ!
And let us, as a congregation, be careful to show love to all people who join us for worship. We should seek to draw them into connection and community by our generosity and our hospitality.