06/26/2023
1. We admitted we were powerless over our addictions and compulsive behaviors, that our lives had become unmanageable.
Why is this so difficult?
Denial is tough. Getting a loved one past Denial and to the point where they actually accept they have a problem can be difficult and painful; Sometimes you would rather give up then put in the work.
Even if a person finally acknowledges there is a problem, either on their own or with an intervention from friends or loved ones, following through with any plans to begin recovery can be next to impossible. Even when a person realizes they are destroying themselves and the life around them, actually doing something to fix the hurt, habit, or hang up can be even harder and take more time. On many levels it is so much easier to acknowledge the problem then it is to employ a plan and fix the problem. The acknowledgement give a person strength temporarily.. a sense of resolve, but when a person tries to put plan into effect, discomfort, fear, and insecurity will more often then not cause failure. It is here where a person needs a cheering section; friends and family who will support and love a person no matter what. Love can be difficult when you have been hurt before. Love can be tiresome when there have been so many failures. It becomes easier to justify giving up... don't. Keep loving... keep supporting. That person in recovery NEEDS you.