06/03/2026
What kind of parent do you want to be? More importantly, what kind of relationship do you want with your children when they grow up?
This week we explored John 15:14-15, where Jesus reveals something powerful: "You are my friends." After three years of discipleship, Jesus moved from calling His followers servants to calling them friends. This is the goal of parenting—not just obedience, but genuine friendship built on love and trust.
Remember: R minus R equals R. Rules without relationship leads to rebellion. Jesus balanced high expectations with deep relationship. He didn't just command obedience—He trained, coached, and ultimately called His disciples friends. Our children need the same journey: from obedience in early years, to training in elementary years, to coaching in the teen years, and finally to friendship as adults.
The goal isn't control forever. It's raising self-disciplined adults who choose to walk with God and stay close to their family. Start with "Children, obey your parents" (Ephesians 6:1), but remember the destination is "You are my friends."