08/23/2026
🎙️ In this episode, we tackle the complicated question of when to stay, when to take a break, and when to leave a religious tradition. Our own journeys are very different, but there are definitely similarities. There was a point when we started questioning Christianity, stepping away from church, wrestling with doubt, and finding more expansive ways of understanding faith. Fr. Shay shares how coming to terms with his q***rness, experiencing exclusion in evangelical spaces, and taking time away from church ultimately led him toward a deeper, more embodied Christian faith and ordained ministry. Brian reflects on his own gradual drift from Christianity, his return through q***r activism and progressive Christian communities, and the experiences that eventually led him to convert to Judaism. We get into the difference between dabbling and committing to a spiritual tradition, the value of finding a community and story that can sustain you, and how to recognize when a faith tradition is asking you to become more fully yourself or asking you to leave.
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🗣️ What helped you find your way back—or know it was time to leave? Let us know in the comments!