06/13/2025
Gossip is a problem in our society. We share the "secrets" of others with whoever is willing to listen. Even consider many of our news networks that share "celebrity gossip." Who is getting a divorce? Who has a drug problem? Who is in a relationship with whom? Our society gobbles up that sort of media. Why? We love juicy news about others.
Yet, the scriptures tell us a few things about gossip. While Prov. 11:3, 20:19, 26:20, and other verses speak of this topic, we want to focus on Prov. 17:9 to remind us of one of the outcomes of gossip. It will sever bonds. There are those who "cover" a matter. That is, this person knows some information is sensitive and does not need to be shared with anyone willing to listen. Why is this one unwilling to share with others? He seeks love. He wants friendship and love with the one with the secret to abound more and more. He wants to continue being trustworthy with whom his loved one can confide.
But the wicked, here called the one who "repeateth a matter." He repeats the secret information to whoever will listen, and does so at the severing of bonds. The friendship will most likely come to an end. Other bonds are likely to break. After all, who wants to share information with one who will tell anything?