09/05/2026
Read Through The Bible / September 5 / Philemon 1
If you had wronged someone and broken your relationship and were told to go back and make it right, would you? What happens if it might cost you your job? Jailtime? What if you would lose your reputation? What if it might cost you lots of money? In today’s world you might go as far as sending them a text message:”sry”. Is there someone right now that you need to get right with? Perhaps, you’re on the other side, someone owes you an apology. You say they owe me more than that! They owe me money, a car, my job back, they need to go public, and I still won’t forget. I mean you are asking me to get right with them? I will never forget what they did to me. Oh, you like to be forgiven but you don’t like to forgive. “But I have never done anything wrong.” You just did you have lied. If you have never apologized to anyone you are walking in pride, fear, and loneliness. If you have never truly apologized you might be divorced or getting close , and in many cases face health problems. Guilt in a way is like cancer it eats away at your insides. The more guilt you hold on to the worse it is. Forgiveness is related to honesty, confession, responsibility, and accountability. It is so important and Jeus said when He taught us the “Lord’s prayer”, “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”(Mat 6:14-15) Paul was asking two men to do the impossible, or at least you and I might think so. Onesimus had been a slave of Philemon and escaped. Philemon would see Onesimus as an untrustworthy slave, which we understand that was not very far up the social ladder. How do you think any respect could be shown. Onesimus ran away showing disrespect, and Philemon sees a slave. Onesimus ends up in Rome and ends up visiting Paul in prison. We do not know any particulars except for two things. Onesimus had been saved, became a child of God and had been set free from slavery to sin. We also know he was not held as a prisoner because he was free to leave. Paul sends Onesimus back to Philemon. Wow. Do you know what that means for Onesimus? It could becoming a slave once again. Did He really want to volunteer to be a slave, a “bond slave”? A bond slave is one that had his ear pierced as a sign of dedication to slavery for life? Think about it. Would you go back into a situation which placed you in such jeopardy as that to be seen as slave? I mean willing to place your self on the lowest rung of the ladder and in some cases you would not even be on the first rung of the social ladder. It was a hard decision to be made and for most of us impossible to overcome,. We would probably try to wait it out, come up with an alternate plan, try to find a way of escape. Philemon was asked to do something impossible as well. Philemon was to welcome Onesimus into his home but not as a slave. Philemon was to forget Onesimus was a runaway slave, and treat him as a brother. Even more than that as a dear friend. Paul said, “ Not now as a servant, but above a servant, a brother beloved, specially to me, but how much more unto thee, both in the flesh, and in the Lord? If thou count me therefore a partner, receive him as myself.” Now how is that relationship supposed to work? Paul takes care of the money issue. That is the gift of grace. When Onesimus obeyed God supplied the means of restoration. You see without God it would be impossible. “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” We are to be responsible with the grace and forgiveness God gives us. He holds us accountable: “if you won’t forgive..” “ Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift. Agree with thine adversary quickly, whiles thou art in the way with him; Mat 5:24-25. Two things necessary to please God. True honesty with confession that does not cast blame but admits sin, “I was wrong.” Forgiveness with a choice to forget, Not holding a grudge and when satan drags it up into our thoughts we chose to show love instead. We do not seek revenge. We allow God to love that person through us. All things are possible with God and when we do it God’s way.
Pastor Daniel