10/01/2026
My God, My God, Why Have You Forsaken Me
Many of us have heard Jesus’s cry from the cross: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” and assumed it means God abandoned Jesus in his darkest moment.
But in context, something far richer is happening.
Jesus is quoting the opening line of Psalm 22.
In the Jewish tradition, quoting a single line of Scripture often functioned as a remez (a verbal hint meant to call an entire passage to mind). And Psalm 22 is astonishingly connected to the crucifixion story. It speaks of mockers shaking their heads, pierced hands and feet, thirst, divided garments, and someone suffering while surrounded by enemies. The Gospel writers intentionally weave these details into their accounts of Jesus’s death.
But Psalm 22 doesn’t end in abandonment.
It turns toward trust, hope, vindication, and ultimately victory: “For he [God] has not despised or scorned the suffering of the afflicted one; he has not hidden his face from him but has listened to his cry for help” (Psalm 22:24).
Even more striking, the final line of Psalm 22 — “He has done it” —can be equally translated as “It is finished.” Of course, these are Jesus’s final words in John’s gospel.
Jesus wasn’t filled with despair on the cross. Rather, he anchored himself in the story of God even in the midst of the most unimaginable suffering.
That doesn’t minimize the agony of the cross. Jesus suffered. He felt the full force of human pain, grief, and anguish. But the cross wasn’t a moment where the Father suddenly turned away from the Son. It was the climactic fulfillment of the redemptive story the Father, Son, and Spirit had purposed from the beginning.
And that matters deeply for us.
Because there are moments when God feels absent to us, too. Moments where suffering is so heavy that we feel abandoned. Yet the cross reminds us that feeling abandoned and being abandoned aren’t the same thing.
Jesus entered the darkest depths of human suffering and discovered that even there, the Father was still present. And we too may find, often to our surprise, that what feels like death can become a doorway into a deeper and truer kind of life.
Prayer:
Jesus, thank you for entering fully into human suffering and holding fast to the story of the Father even from the cross. When we feel abandoned, remind us that your presence hasn’t left us. Teach us to trust you in the dark. Amen