09/02/2026
Q: If I knew someone who was considering hurting themselves, are there any scriptures or truths that I could share to help them?
A: If someone shares directly with you that they are planning to hurt themselves, then the first and most appropriate response will be to help move them away from that intention. Depending on the severity of the situation, it may be necessary to call 911 to get professional help and support.
Even if a person is not actively suicidal, Bible verses still may not be the best response. It is important to understand that depression and suicidal tendencies can have a variety of causes. If a person’s depression is caused by a medical or dietary issue, a counselor or psychiatrist may be in a better position to help them. Depression and su***de can be a result of shame, wrong beliefs, or dysfunctional relationships; all of which can be healed through a relationship with Christ; but we can cause a lot of harm if we misdiagnose a medical problem as a spiritual one.
However, that being said, I do believe that a relationship with Jesus Christ and a knowledge of His word can empower us to overcome hardships and challenges, so let me share some thoughts about ways that God and His Word may help those struggling with depression or suicidal thoughts.
Fundamentally, su***de is caused by an individual’s conclusion that life is not worth living, or that the world would be better if they were not in it. According to God’s Word, both of those conclusions are completely wrong! These wrong conclusions can be caused by wrong perspectives of the meaning and value of life (taught by bullying, neglect, or deceptive teaching), or by suffering or deprivation (chronic pain, dysfunctional relationships, or an imbalance of chemicals in the body or brain can cause seemingly pointless and endless misery). Counselors and medical professionals can help address or lessen some of the underlying causes of depression (consider Paul’s relationship with Luke the doctor in Colossians 4:14 and his advice to Timothy in 1 Timothy 5:23 as examples of a biblical perspective of medicine).
If you are a Christian and you see someone who seems to be struggling, it may be beneficial to share Biblical truths about our value in God’s eyes (Ps. 139:14; Luke 12:6-7; etc.), or our hope in Christ (Romans 8:18; Romans 8:28; Romans 15:4; 2 Corinthians 1:3-4; etc.). It is often the case that we are best able to help others with challenges that we ourselves have struggled with (2 Cor. 1:3-4), so if you’ve struggled with depression or low times in life, share what has helped you!
It is also important not to underestimate the power of a loving church community. A healthy church will be a welcoming and healing environment for the struggling; meeting their need for healing Truth (John 8:32) and healthy relationships (1 John 4:7). We cannot fix every problem in this broken world, but we can walk alongside the hurting in love and persist in praying for each other until answers are found. Remember; the goal is to help the person reach a more wholesome and blessed place in their lives. If we aren’t able to help the struggling, then we should encourage them to reach out to others until they find what they need; God’s word gives us confidence that solutions are out there if we seek them (Matthew 7:7-8)!