06/17/2023
Let me know if this scenario sounds familiar...
You have a prospect that youâre really excited about. You seem to vibe perfectly with them, and you KNOW you could help them. Itâs a great fit, and getting a YES from them to work with you should be a piece of cake.
But once your meeting starts, things take a turn for the worse. Instead of hearing a YES, your dream client seems unsure...so you try to fill all the awkward silences by giving them more information or reasons why they need you.
They end the meeting by telling you they need to think about it, or have to talk to their spouse or partner before they make a decision, or the timing isnât right...and you never hear from them again.
So what happened?! Was it something you did or said?
WellâŚYES!
I know it may sound counterintuitive, but talking too much or over-selling is a very common problem in the world of sales.
Itâs important to recognize that when you are quiet, you give the other person the opportunity to give you useful information.
If you are just talking and talking, you are not giving yourself the leverage to hear what the prospectâs needs are. Youâre not giving them the opportunity to tell you what it is they are looking for (so that you can offer it to them!)
When you simply listen, you give them the opportunity to share the information you need to successfully turn this person into a paying client.
If youâre struggling with enrolling the right people and feel like youâre losing potential clients by talking too much, here's a super simple tip I use to talk less during sales conversations:
Before you say anything, count to ten in your head.
It may sound too simple or even silly, but it is so effective!
This short pause allows your potential client a moment to think, or a chance to ask a question, or even tell you they are ready to start working with you.
So, during your next meeting or phone call with a potential client, try my tip for talking less. You might be surprised by what happens.
And if you want our help to become more confident in your sales conversations with clients so that you never have to wing it again, schedule a call with us here.