05/28/2026
Proverbs 6:16â35 (NASB 1995)
ďż˝16 There are six things which the LORD hates,ďż˝Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him:ďż˝17 Haughty eyes,ďż˝A lying tongue,ďż˝And hands that shed innocent blood,ďż˝18 A heart that devises wicked plans,ďż˝Feet that run rapidly to evil,ďż˝19 A false witness who utters lies,ďż˝And one who spreads strife among brothers.ďż˝20 My son, observe the commandment of your fatherďż˝And do not forsake the teaching of your mother;ďż˝21 Bind them continually on your heart;ďż˝Tie them around your neck.ďż˝22 When you walk, they will guide you;ďż˝When you sleep, they will watch over you;ďż˝And when you awake, they will talk with you.ďż˝23 For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching is light;ďż˝And reproofs for discipline are the way of life,ďż˝24 To keep you from the evil woman,ďż˝From the smooth tongue of the adulteress.ďż˝25 Do not desire her beauty in your heart,ďż˝Nor let her capture you with her eyelids.ďż˝26 For on account of a harlotďż˝one is reduced to a loaf of bread,ďż˝And an adulteress hunts for the precious life.ďż˝27 Can a man take fire in his bosomďż˝And the clothes not be burned?ďż˝28 Can a man walk on hot coalsďż˝And his feet not be scorched?ďż˝29 So is he who goes in to his neighborâs wife;ďż˝Whoever touches her will not go unpunished.ďż˝30 Men do not despise a thief if he stealsďż˝To satisfy himself when he is hungry;ďż˝31 But when he is found, he must repay sevenfold;ďż˝He will give all the substance of his house.ďż˝32 The one who commits adultery with a woman is lacking sense;ďż˝He who would destroy himself does it.ďż˝33 Wounds and disgrace he will find,ďż˝And his reproach will not be blotted out.ďż˝34 For jealousy is fierce as the grave,ďż˝And its flashes are flashes of fire.ďż˝35 It cannot be appeased by any ransom,ďż˝Nor can it be compensated though he gives many gifts.
This section is very sharp about sinâbut notice what itâs aiming at: sin is destructive. The Proverbs author is warning you away from patterns that donât just âbreak rulesâ; they burn you from the inside out.
1) God hates what damages love and life
The list in verses 16â19 isnât random. Itâs basically describing:
* pride that wonât submit (âhaughty eyesâ),
* deception (âlying tongue,â âfalse witnessâ),
* violence (âhands that shed innocent bloodâ),
* scheming and speed toward evil (âheart⌠wicked plans,â âfeet⌠run rapidly to evilâ),
* and relational poison (âspreads strife among brothersâ).
Thatâs why God calls these an abominationâbecause they tear down people and poison community.
2) In Proverbs, âwisdom/teachingâ functions like guardrails
Verses 20â23 talk about binding commandments to the heart and letting them guide you day and night. Under the New Covenant, we donât try to live by commandments as the basis of acceptanceâJesus has already made us His own (Ephesians 1:7; Hebrews 10:10, 14).
Instead, this imagery still teaches something true and practical: Godâs word forms the direction of your life. But the engine is different now. In Christ, the Spirit writes Godâs desires on the heart, producing a life that naturally turns away from what destroys (Hebrews 8:10; Galatians 5:18).
3) The âevil womanâ is about more than sexâitâs about bait that costs you everything
From verse 24 onward, the warning narrows: adultery and its âsmooth tongue,â âeyelids,â and âbeautifulâ appearance. Proverbs compares sin to:
* taking fire into your bosom,
* stepping on hot coals,
* and touching what will burn you.
Thatâs the point: sin promises pleasure but guarantees harmâjealousy, wounds, disgrace, and an unrest that money canât buy peace from (vv. 33â35).
4) The righteousness truth: Jesus dealt with âpunishmentâ so you donât have to deal with guilt
Proverbs says, âWhoever touches her will not go unpunishedâ (v. 29). Under grace, the believer is not chasing punishment for sinâChrist already took that burden once for all (Colossians 2:13â14; Romans 8:1).ďż˝So this passage doesnât become a weapon to beat yourself up; it becomes a warning that sin is deadlyand that Godâs way is life.
5) How to apply it without turning it into law-moralism
* Donât use it to ask, âHave I failed enough?â Instead, use it to see, âThis path is a burning path.â
* Let the Spirit redirect you when desire starts to drift. Not as a âtry harder,â but as a âturn from the lie, lean on Christâs life.â
* Rest in forgiveness while still taking the warning seriouslyâbecause grace doesnât minimize sinâs harm; grace empowers you to flee from it.
3 quick New Covenant anchor texts
* Colossians 2:13â14 â the record of debt was canceled at the cross.
* Romans 8:1 â no condemnation for those in Christ.
* Galatians 5:18 â youâre led by the Spirit, not under law as a rule.