The official page for Stephen Kuhn, author of 10 Lies Men Believe about P**n, 52 Amazing Things That Became True of You the Moment You Trusted Christ, and founder of Belt of Truth Ministries. Why can’t we just walk away from it no matter how hard we try? It’s because we are focusing on the wrong battle. As men, we tend to believe our struggles with po*******hy are about s*xual desire. But if this
were the case, my belief that my addiction would go away once I was married would have been at least partially true. So why was it my addiction actually became worse once I was married? Why did I repeatedly choose to walk away from my beautiful, loving wife to get my s*xual needs met through po*******hy? The only answer that makes sense, is that po*******hy addiction isn’t actually the result of an overzealous libido. It’s also not from having an under-attentive spouse, a lack of willpower, or strong s*xual desire. P**nography addiction is the result of trying to meet the deepest needs of your soul without having to risk anything in the process. The problem with p**n though, is it can never make good on it’s promise. It actually pulls you away from the very things that will meet those needs. Luckily, God gives us His answer on how to overcome temptation:
"Therefore, put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm. Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness. For shoes, put on the peace that comes from the Good News so that you will be fully prepared. In addition to all of these, hold up the shield of faith to stop the fiery arrows of the devil. Put on salvation as your helmet, and take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God" (Ephesians 6:13–17).