09/03/2026
The new episode is up. I get into why the opposite of love isn't hate, it's fear. When we're afraid, we hate, because fear makes us want to push people away. But real love, perfect love, it doesn't just manage fear, it gets rid of it completely.
I also talk about "tough love" and why that phrase bothers me. A lot of times it's just a cover for being harsh or controlling. Genuine love is already tough, it's also tender and gentle at the same time. That kind of love heals everything in us, from our heads to our souls.
That's the love that meets our deepest needs. Go check out the full conversation.
