05/26/2026
My Bible reading took me into Proverbs this morning. Allow me to share some thoughts that I believe can help the sincere believer.
What does it cost a man when he thinks he's found the right road — but never checks the right map?
Proverbs 16 is like a masterclass on the invisible government of God. Every verse pulses with this truth: "The preparations of the heart in man, and the answer of the tongue, is from the LORD" (v. 1). Man proposes, God disposes. We make our little plans, but the Lord directs our steps (v. 9).
The chapter builds to a devastating climax in verses 25-30 — six verses that strip away every excuse a fool uses to stay a fool.
THE SETUP: Pride Before Destruction (vv. 18-24) Before we hit verse 25, Solomon loads the gun:
"Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall" (v. 18). This isn't poetry — it's physics.
Pride is the setup.
The fall is inevitable.
The contrast is stark: "Better it is to be of an humble spirit with the lowly, than to divide the spoil with the proud" (v. 19).
It is better that we have nothing but do it God’s way, then if we fulfill every appetite and suffer the fall. You can have your treasure and your arrogance — but not for long.
NOW THE KNOCKOUT PUNCH (vv. 25-30):
Verse 25: "There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death." This is probably one of the most terrifying verses in Proverbs — and Solomon says it twice (Prov 14:12). A man can be sincere, confident, even passionate about his path. He can have good intentions and strong convictions, but if he never checked his route against God's Word, he's driving toward a cliff in the dark. The word "seemeth" — *yashar* — means straight, right, pleasant to the eyes. It FEELS right. It LOOKS right. But feelings lie, observations can be deceitful. Only the Word of God is truth.
Verse 26: "He that laboureth laboureth for himself; for his mouth craveth it of him."
Here's the engine that drives the fool down that deadly path — appetite. The laborer works for his belly, and his belly is never satisfied. When a man lives for his cravings, his cravings become his master. He'll justify any path that feeds them. These cravings can be money, prestige, influence, platform, legacy, even likes on social media. While these things are not necessarily evil in an of themselves, it’s the fact that this person is laboring (working to fulfill his own appetites not God's desires), that makes him dangerous.
Verse 27: "An ungodly man diggeth up evil: and in his lips there is as a burning fire."
Now we see what that appetite produces — a man who mines for trouble. The Hebrew *karah* means to dig, to excavate. This isn't accidental evil — this is a man with a shovel, looking for dirt to throw. His words aren't just careless — they're incendiary. "In his lips there is as a burning fire." He sets the world ablaze with his tongue. Take note: The person that digs up dirt on another person, the person that goes around repeating dirt on another person, is called an “ungodly man” by God.
Verse 28: "A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends."
The froward man — *tahpukah* — is twisted, perverse, upside-down in his thinking. He plants division like a farmer plants seed. Deliberate. Systematic. And the whisperer? He doesn't need to shout to destroy. A whisper in the right ear can end a twenty-year friendship over night. The enemy knows this — why don't we? Take Note: The person that sows strife in another person’s life through deliberate rumors, division, and words with the sole purpose of destruction and separating friends is called, by God, a “froward man”.
Verse 29: "A violent man enticeth his neighbour, and leadeth him into the way that is not good."
Violence here isn't just physical — it's *chamas* — ruthless, destructive force. This man is a recruiter for destruction. He doesn't just walk the wrong path — he builds a sales team. He makes his rebellion look attractive, his defiance look reasonable. He gathers others to him and his “mission of desolation” by deception, enticement and force. Any method is ok to acquire his goal.
Verse 30: "He shutteth his eyes to devise froward things: moving his lips bringeth evil to pass."
The final picture is chilling — a man (person) with his eyes closed, lost in wicked imagination, his lips moving as he plots. He's not just stumbled into evil — he's an architect of it. Eyes shut to reality, mouth open to destruction. Truth does not factor into his plans, for he has long ago convinced himself that he is right. Evidence? He does not need evidence to back up his whispers, he has placed himself in the stead of God and therefore he should be believed. He will attack anyone that questions his narrative.
God says that the person who does these things is a froward (perverse, fraud), ungodly (without profit), and violent (wrong, unjust), However, the Bible does not say that this person is unsaved, or unrecoverable. Could this person be an anti-christ, a wolf? Yes. But it could just as likely be a solid Christian that chose a poor path, based on their desires and never course corrected to be in alignment with God’s Word.
God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit are in the business of forgiveness and restoration, The person described in these verses is choosing to stand in direct opposition to the very reason Christ came. He is the architect of evil for the purpose of fulfilling his own desires and he does not consider those he destroys in the process. In this way he has placed himself in the stead of God. Until he searches God ‘s Word and reinstitutes it as his final authority, he is dangerous.
So then, what do we do with the truth in these verses. I believe that our responsibility when reading God’s word is two-fold.
First, study the warning in Proverbs 16 and see if you have started down this path. Insert your name in the verses and see if any ring true. Ask yourself if you are guilty of the 6 patterns listed below. If you find yourself guilty of acting in the manner written here-in, repent (change your direction), ask for forgiveness and realign yourself with scripture. After all, that is why God left us His word. So that we could order ourselves aright. He has the final authority. His Word is the only truth.
Secondly, In a world where observation gets you labeled as being judgmental, I remind you that God’s Word gives us the metrics whereby we will know whether to believe the whispers of another.
Romans 16:17 — "Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them."
Mark them and avoid them. Not debate them. Not try to change them. Avoid them.
1 John 4:1 — "Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God". Every teacher, every voice, every influence gets the doctrine exam. No exceptions.
Proverbs 16:18 — "Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall." Watch for arrogance. It's a flashing red light.
If you want to know if a person in your life falls into the categories listed in Proverbs 16:25-30, insert their name in the verses and see if those verses ring true.
Let us root out this pattern in our lives and recognize it quickly in the lives of others, lest we fall and bring reproach to our Saviour.
THE PATTERN — HOW A MAN FALLS:
1. Self-reliance (v. 25) — "I know the way" “This seems right to me”
2. Appetite-driven (v. 26) — "I work for what I want” “I want that person gone” “I want more followers, money, influence, people on my side”
3. Troublemaker (v. 27) — "I dig up dirt on others"
4. Division-sower (v. 28) — "I separate friends"
5. Recruiter for evil (v. 29) — "I entice others to join me"
6. Premeditated wickedness (v. 30) — "I plot evil with my eyes closed" Becoming our own final authority and not concerning ourselves with the truth or evidence. I am more concerned with winning then with aligning myself with truth.
This is the progression? It starts with a man who thinks he knows better than God's Word and ends with a man who has become the devil's hiring manager.
THE REMEDY: "Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths" (Prov 3:5-6).
The way that seems right to a man leads to death. But the way that IS right is found in God's Word. Check your map. Check it daily. Check it before you move. What path are you walking today? And more importantly — who showed you the way?
~Heather Close See less