06/14/2026
Now that we are through the series of solemnities that follow Easter, it is important for us to remember what to do with these weeks after Pentecost, commonly known as "Ordinary Time"; except there is nothing 'ordinary' about it. This is the time for us to take what we learned, acquired, or received as a point of growth over the Advent-Christmas – Lent-Easter seasons and integrate one or more of these points into our everyday spiritual life. Might this require 'pruning' of our spiritual life in order to make room for these new areas of growth? Indeed! But then, that is life. We prune away in order to make room for the new; and if it bears new fruit, we are all the better for it; if it does not, then we leave it behind and reacquire that which bore fruit before. There's nothing wrong with such an approach.
So, what to do? Well, think back on your experience of Advent-Christmas and / or Lent/Easter. What practice did you take up which, in the moment, seemed to be of spiritual benefit? If you found it of benefit, why not make it a permanent part of your spiritual discipline? Remember: Lenten disciplines aren't necessarily intended to be left to Lent! That time in the desert is a time in which we find ourselves discovering a closer communion with God. So, why not continue that throughout the year?
With regards to the issue of 'pruning' - Why? I often tell spiritual directees that they must remember they are not monks or nuns. They are often students, parents, working types, etc. And yet, they too often think they should be praying like a monastic monk or nun. My typical response is "if God intended you to pray like a monk or nun, He would have called you to that monastic life. But, He didn't! He called you to the life of a student, a parent, a working person, etc. Therefore, it would make sense that He also then provided for you to engage in a spiritual life that is congruent with your life's vocation.
It can be very helpful to seek the advice (short term) or guidance (longer term) of a spiritual director; someone, a priest, religious sister or brother, or even a well formed / trained lay person, who can give guidance regarding your particular situation, and applying good principles of spiritual growth to your situation and the promptings of the Holy Spirit.
There are also some good books available, Fr. Thomas Ackland and Fr. Boniface Hicks' "Personal Prayer" comes immediately to mind, which can be helpful in understanding the principles of the spiritual life.
In any case, I propose these thoughts as a way by which you may make these weeks after Pentecost a time of growth in your relationship with God and with your neighbor, as well as begin to see Advent and Lent as times of stepping up one's game rather than simply a short visit to the desert which is forgotten as soon as the season is come to an end. May God bless you in your journey!