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St. Mary's Catholic Church St. Mary's Parish is a Roman Catholic Parish located in Wharton, NJ. As a parish within the Diocese of Paterson, St.

Mary's is a place where people come to experience a living relationship with Jesus Christ and His Church through faith, the sacraments, fellowship, and prayer (Acts 2:42). We invite all to join us on the adventurous journey of becoming and living as a disciple of Jesus Christ!

With joyful hearts we welcome our NEWLY BAPTIZED 🕊️MILA EVA DECOLAdaughter of Todd & AnnaEDEN MARIE DEVLINdaughter of Ma...
10/29/2026

With joyful hearts we welcome our NEWLY BAPTIZED 🕊️

MILA EVA DECOLA
daughter of Todd & Anna

EDEN MARIE DEVLIN
daughter of Matthew & Samantha

VIOLETTA GRACE FERRARA
WINONA HOPE FERRARA
twin daughters of David & Nicole

“For all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. “ Galatians 3:27

ST. MARY'S HISTORY by Brian ReganThe stained-glass windows are beautiful. Can you tell us about them? [Part 6]Let's cons...
10/29/2026

ST. MARY'S HISTORY by Brian Regan

The stained-glass windows are beautiful. Can you tell us about them? [Part 6]

Let's consider the double figure window close to the altar on the South Main Street side of the church. Even without the inscription "Mater Dolorosa" (Latin for "Sorrowful Mother"), the single tear dropping from her eye tells us this that is a painting of Mary in deep sorrow. Her pairing with St. John has its origin at that moment on Calvary when from the cross Christ says, "Mother, behold your son; Son, your Mother." Images of Jesus's Mother and the Beloved Disciple were thus logically placed together here and near the main crucifix.

Both the Sorrowful Mother and St. John windows are rich with reference and symbolism, in some ways the most detailed and complex in the entire church.
Mary is clothed not in her usual blue mantle but a light purple cloak over which is a black cape whose black cord is knotted at her neck, showing that she is mourning her Son's ex*****on. Her white tunic represents her purity. The cloak's inner lining is gold and red, the same as John's inner cloak and visually tying these two figures. Another visual device unites them: halos of red, which are not typical, and represent the suffering that they endured because of Christ's suffering. None of the other saints in St.
Mary's windows have such halos.

Look closely and you will see that at the Sorrowful Mother's feet are devices of Jesus's passion and suffering: crown of thorns, whip, Roman flagrum, nails. The nails and crown of thorns are laid in a bowl or basin, the latter used to wash Christ's body after his crucifixion and before wrapping it in a shroud. The bottom panel holds a heart with seven arrows piercing it, representing the Seven Sorrows of Mary, and which were described in a previous column about the Sacred Heart of Mary rose window.
Next column: St. John the Evangelist window

✝️Holy Family Prayer ProgramThank you to the Collettis for your participation! Through the intercession of the HolyFamil...
10/28/2026

✝️Holy Family Prayer Program
Thank you to the Collettis for your participation! Through the intercession of the HolyFamily of Nazareth, may you continue to respond the call to be a small “domestic church" that shine with the Gospel virtues.

The family that prays together, stays together!

🦃THANKSGIVING BASKETSThanksgiving will be here before we know it. We have been busy with requests for Thanksgiving baske...
10/28/2026

🦃THANKSGIVING BASKETS
Thanksgiving will be here before we know it. We have been busy with requests for Thanksgiving baskets from families in need. The Items in the graphic will be collected through the Food Pantry.

👉Please leave items at the back of the church after Mass.

👉All items must be brought by NOVEMBER 15TH

Thank you all for your generosity!💝

God Bless you all,
Food Pantry Coordinators

🎄 St. Mary’s Annual Memorialized Christmas Tree FundraiserSt. Mary’s will once again celebrate the Christmas season by i...
10/27/2026

🎄 St. Mary’s Annual Memorialized Christmas Tree Fundraiser

St. Mary’s will once again celebrate the Christmas season by illuminating our parish grounds with beautiful Christmas trees, decorated with white lights.

They will remain lit each evening throughout the entire Christmas season.

✔️The cost to memorialize one of these beautiful trees is $220.

Each tree will have a laminated dedication certificate containing your dedication, the names of those you wish to remember, or a Christmas greeting.

There are also other ways to support our fundraiser by becoming a Sponsor. Sponsorship levels are listed below.

▪️Lead Sponsor: $2,000.00 (entitled to 4 complimentary tree/dedicatory certificates).
▪️Patron Sponsor: $1,000.00 (entitled to 2 complimentary tree/dedicatory certificates).
▪️ Contributing Sponsor: $500.00 (entitled to 1 complimentary tree/dedicatory certificate)

The benefits of Sponsorship also include recognition:

- in Church Bulletin announcements

- in digital promotion on social media

- on St. Mary’s website

- among those thanked at the formal “Lighting of the Trees”

Click here to order yours: https://www.wesharegiving.org/App/Form/83d7fcf6-7db7-43a8-98fd-4bd5c1ccde5b or use the QR Code.

Thank you for your generosity!

First Saturday DevotionTo OUR LADY OF FATIMAThe First Saturday Devotion to Our Lady of Fatima will be held on the follow...
10/27/2026

First Saturday Devotion
To OUR LADY OF FATIMA

The First Saturday Devotion to Our Lady of Fatima will be held on the following dates:

▪️November 7th
▪️December 5th
▪️January 2nd
▪️February 6th

👉9:00 - 10:30 am

To fulfill Our Lady of Fatima’s request, St. Mary’s Church, Dover invites you to join the observance of five consecutive first Saturdays of the month devotion honoring Our Lady’s Immaculate Heart who in her own words said, “I promise to help at the hour of death, with the grace needed for salvation, whoever on the First Saturday of the five consecutive months shall:

1. Confess and receive Holy Communion
2. Recite five decades of the rosary
3. And keep me company on the twenty mysteries of the Rosary, with the intention of making reparation to me.”

The five 1st Saturdays devotion is one of the principal points of the Fatima message [centering] on the urgent need for mankind to offer reparation and expiate for the many injuries that the Immaculate Heart of Mary suffers from the hands of both impious and indifferent [people] : those sins against her Immaculate Conception, Virginity, Divine Motherhood and spiritual Maternity; also ask for forgiveness when Her children refuse to love Her and those offenses against Her sacred images.

Join us and invite your friends!

If you have any questions, please contact Teresa Rodriguez at [email protected]

Youth Group Pumpkin Carving Tuesday!🎃This is a reminder that we have our Youth Group pumpkin carving night this Tuesday,...
10/26/2026

Youth Group Pumpkin Carving Tuesday!🎃
This is a reminder that we have our Youth Group pumpkin carving night this Tuesday, October 27th, from 7:00-8:30pm in the school! All 6th-12th graders are invited.

Bring your own pumpkin, and bring a friend! Carving supplies will be provided. If you have any questions, please contact Sarah Horetsky at [email protected]

FROM THE PASTOR'S DESKDear friends,In our parish, Baptisms are normally celebrated on the third Sunday of each month imm...
10/25/2026

FROM THE PASTOR'S DESK

Dear friends,
In our parish, Baptisms are normally celebrated on the third Sunday of each month immediately following the 11:30 AM Mass. Anyone interested to have their babies baptized should register through our parish website.

Once registered, Barbara, one of our dedicated parish volunteers, will provide further instructions. Parents preparing for the Baptism of their first child are asked to attend a baptismal preparation class. This class is led by Sarah, Phyllis, and our other volunteers, and
covers the theological basics of the sacrament as well as a walkthrough of the rite itself. While we frequently baptize infants, we also offer a dedicated preparation process for adults who wish to enter the Catholic Church. This is called the Order of Christian Initiation for Adults (OCIA). The OCIA involves a more extensive preparation and study of our Catholic faith, culminating in reception of the Sacraments of Initiation-Baptism, Confirmation, and First Holy Communion-during the Easter Vigil.

Regarding the celebration of the sacrament, the Catechism reminds us of the essential visible signs of this holy moment. We read in no. 1239-1240: "Baptism is performed in the most expressive way by triple immersion in the baptismal water.

However, from ancient times it has also been able to be conferred by pouring the water three times over the candidate's head. In the Latin Church this triple infusion is accompanied by the minister's words: "N., I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit."
Fr. Lem

Hand in Hand - CARE GIVERS MINISTRYGathering for all those who provide care for others, especially those of older age.👉T...
10/25/2026

Hand in Hand - CARE GIVERS MINISTRY

Gathering for all those who provide care for others, especially those of older age.

👉The group meets the third Saturday of every month at 10 am in our Ministry Building.

The meeting lasts approximately one and a half hours.

VISION STATEMENT
To allow the Holy Spirit to come through each of us, creating an attentive listening environment where those having issues with everyday living can find hope, healing and support through faith in Jesus Christ.

MISSION STATEMENT
Our mission is to provide a confidential, safe, compassionate environment through Spiritual Companioning. Ultimately, helping individuals to regain peace, love and trust in Humanity through the Holy Spirit.

All are welcome!

For more information, please contact Dave Lenox at [email protected]

🚘Car Raffle - New Jersey Right to LifeThe Knights of Columbus will be selling Respect Life raffle tickets after all Mass...
10/24/2026

🚘Car Raffle - New Jersey Right to Life
The Knights of Columbus will be selling Respect Life raffle tickets after all Masses on October 24-25th at $10.00 each!

▪️First Prize is the 2026 Volvo XC40 All Wheel Drive SUV valued at forty-five thousand, six fifty.

▪️Second, third and fourth prizes are Shoprite gift cards value one-thousand, seven-fifty, and five hundred dollars respectively.

▪️Drawing at Maggiano’s Little Italy in Bridgewater on November 20, 2026.

▪️Winner need not be present.

▪️Proceeds will benefit New Jersey Right to Life, the state’s oldest and largest pro-life organization.

Address

425 W Blackwell Street
Dover, NJ
07801

Opening Hours

Monday 7am - 7:30am
9am - 3pm
Tuesday 7am - 7:30am
9am - 3pm
Wednesday 7am - 7:30am
9am - 3pm
Thursday 7am - 7:30am
9am - 3pm
Friday 7am - 7:30am
9am - 3pm
Saturday 3:45pm - 4:30pm
5:30pm - 6:30pm
Sunday 7:30am - 12:30pm

Telephone

+19733660184

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