05/22/2026
Today, we celebrate Saint Rita of Cascia — patron saint of impossible causes, difficult marriages, healing, and perseverance through suffering.
St. Rita’s life was marked by hardship. Though she desired religious life from a young age, she was instead married to an abusive husband in 14th century Italy. After years of prayer and patience, her husband eventually changed before being tragically murdered. Rita then endured the loss of her two sons before finally entering the Augustinian convent she had long dreamed of joining. Through every stage of suffering, she became known for radical forgiveness, deep prayer, and unwavering faith in God.
Many paintings of St. Rita show a wound or thorn in her forehead. This comes from a tradition that while meditating on Christ’s Passion, Rita received a wound from a thorn of Jesus’ crown of thorns — a visible sign of sharing spiritually in Christ’s suffering. Artists often depict light, blood, or a thorn coming from her forehead to symbolize this mystical experience and her closeness to Christ.
St. Rita reminds us that holiness is not reserved for easy lives. She is a saint for those carrying grief, disappointment, strained relationships, unanswered prayers, or seasons that feel impossible.
How to celebrate St. Rita’s feast day today:
🌹 Bring or plant roses — roses are closely tied to St. Rita because of the miracle of a rose blooming in winter near the end of her life.
🍝 Share an Italian meal with loved ones — homemade pasta, bread, olive oil, and a simple dessert are a beautiful nod to her Italian roots.
🍷 Enjoy a glass of wine or sparkling water with family and intentionally pray for reconciliation, healing, or peace.
🕯️ Light a candle and pray for someone facing an “impossible” situation.
📖 Read about forgiveness in Scripture, especially Matthew 5 or Luke 23.
🤝 Support Catholic organizations serving families, women, and those in crisis, such as Catholic Charities, St. Vincent de Paul Society, Birthright International, Walking with Moms in Need, or your local parish outreach ministry.
St. Rita’s story is proof that God can still bring grace, healing, and even beauty from lives marked by suffering and loss.