06/01/2026
The topic this week is making friends. I must confess that I struggle with this. Early on in my life, I felt like somehow I didn't get the friend handbook. I was shy and tried to stay away from social situations because they were so hard. Just as I was settling into any situation, we would move or my friend would leave and I would once again struggle to make a new friend. I carried this into adulthood. I always preferred to stay out of social situations because I'd experienced betrayal and the feeling of being left out, but I still wanted to be part of a friend group and feel connected. I still struggle.
Having made that confession, I think this week's topic is as much for me as any of you.
So how do you make friends at church? I did a little research and have come up with a little list. What I would really like is for some of you who are good at making connections to join in and give some us less socially aware women some help!
The Bible has lots of scripture about being a friend and what it means to be a friend, but I think 1 Corinthians 13, is our ultimate friendship guide. Let read it together this week and see what we can learn about being a friend.
When you walk into church, you have to be willing to engage with others, and with what I've learned, you have to start looking at friendship from a posture that considers what you can do for others and not just be in a friendship from a place your own neediness. Love from a place of genuine care and love.
Ok,girls! What do you have to add? I am listening.