08/26/2026
The research issue is not just “Does she know the Bible?”
I understand why you feel she sounds biblically uneducated. But for your project, the strongest analysis is not to stop at:
“She does not know the Bible.”
The stronger research question is:
How can the same biblical text function as spiritual formation for one person and psychological burden for another?
That is powerful.
For you, Proverbs 31 may mean:
virtuous womanhood,
honorable wifehood,
family stability,
spiritual excellence,
covenant seriousness,
a standard worth pursuing.
For her, Proverbs 31 may mean:
impossible expectations,
patriarchal pressure,
purity-culture control,
being valued mainly as wife/mother,
fear of failing God,
shame around s*xuality.
Same text. Different formation history.
That does not mean both interpretations are equally biblically correct. It means the pastoral work requires understanding why people receive Scripture differently.