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But what about them, Lord? Why aren’t you doing anything about them? Why do I need to do this but they are continuing in...
05/21/2025

But what about them, Lord? Why aren’t you doing anything about them? Why do I need to do this but they are continuing in their things and it doesn’t feel like you are intervening?

How often as Christians do we say or feel this? We hear God asking something of us. We know it deep within yet we see others and we turn our eyes towards them instead of on our ourselves. Deep down, we know that God is asking us to walk a different route. To change something in our life. Sometimes that requires us to get way out of our comfort zone. It is easier to point fingers to the other person instead of getting uncomfortable and real with ourselves.

In John 21 …Jesus was talking to Peter about his future. He was telling Peter to go feed his sheep.. But instead of Peter, keeping the focus on himself he looked at John and asked Jesus what about him? Jesus answered by asking Peter what that is to him on what John’s life will hold?

This scripture is so eye-opening and a testimony of where our focus really needs to be.
God calls us to work on ourselves, not to point fingers towards the other person and ask why they aren’t doing what they should be doing. It is easy to play the blame game. But it is much harder to face responsibility and take action to what God is asking of us. So many times we say well I don’t know what I’m supposed to be doing. When the reality is that when we face truth and really look deep inside, God has already given us that discernment. Are we willing to receive it?

Sometimes it is easier to stay in doubt and say we don’t know then to face reality and know that God is asking this uncomfortable thing of us …something that will get us out of our comfort zone and will not always be a fun process. If we stay in our comfort zone, we will never grow to the full potential God has called us to go.

Not one of his disciples stayed in their comfort zone. They all had to get real honest and decide where they stand. They had to intentionally make the choice to do the things, Jesus called them to do. They still had a choice. Jesus was not going to force them to do anything . The same way he will not force you and I to do anything. But it is up to you, you have a choice.

How much of your true potential do you want to live out? Do you want to stay in the comfort, the familiar or do you want to dig deep and get real honest with God and with yourself and truly search for what God is asking you to do? Where God is asking you to go, what steps is he directing you towards? Are you willing to face that?

No one else can fulfill your potential.
When you get to heaven, do you want to look back and see the progress you made by going after your potential or do you want to look back and see how much you stayed in your comfort zone and how many lives could have been saved if only you would have taken that step of faith?

Can we truly comprehend what Jesus actually did for us on the cross, that day two thousand twenty-four years ago, as He ...
03/30/2024

Can we truly comprehend what Jesus actually did for us on the cross, that day two thousand twenty-four years ago, as He hung there, as they mocked Him, as He bore the agony and pain? On Good Friday I feel like it is a great day to just reflect and really think on what Jesus actually did and how great His love is for us!...

Can we truly comprehend what Jesus actually did for us on the cross, that day two thousand twenty-four years ago, as He hung there, as they mocked Him, as He bore the agony and pain? On Good Friday…

What song played on repeat through the biggest battle of your life? The one you listened to over and over and each time ...
02/20/2024

What song played on repeat through the biggest battle of your life?
The one you listened to over and over and each time the tears flowed and it felt like you’re pouring your heart out through tears.

Those times when words weren’t spoken …
Tears were the language that was understood…
Pain was felt raw and real…
No one else could truly understand what happens in those moments aside from you and God…

The song that will always take you back to those moments in an instance even after years.

The Well by Casting Crowns is mine. Every time it comes on I instantly go back in time to my broken heart feeling in pieces beyond what my weary body could imagine restoring. The song brought peace to my tired soul as I cried out to God through my tears.
Falling at the well at His feet. Too tired to go on. Feeling beat by this thing called life.
Slowly by slowly my Savior brought healing to my heart and peace to my soul day by day.
Those moments brought me to the place I am today.
Without them I would be the person I now am.
I thank God for those times now.
(NEVER, did I think I would EVER, say that)

No matter where your at in your journey today, Jesus is there ready to take your hand. To walk through the hard times, the good times, the sad times, and the bittersweet times with you.

You’re more loved than you can ever imagine!
You are chosen! And you’re NOT a mistake.

If you’re reading this and you feel so defeated, stay strong and courageous, the battle will be won! It may not look the way you want it to look but if you trust in the one who holds the universe in His hands, you can rest assured that He will make a way when it feels like there is no way and He has good plans for you!

Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord,
Plans to prosper you and not to harm you,
Plans to give you hope and a future.

The waves came crashing in over the rocks as my little son stood on top of the rock. The small waves made him laugh and ...
01/27/2024

The waves came crashing in over the rocks as my little son stood on top of the rock. The small waves made him laugh and giggle , then a big wave came crashing make a big splash and in an instant his little self was frightened and he cried Momma hold me. Safe in Moms arms the wave didn’t look so huge....

The waves came crashing in over the rocks as my little son stood on top of the rock. The small waves made him laugh and giggle , then a big wave came crashing make a big splash and in an instant hi…

Good morning!! Lately it’s been my favorite thing , to curl up with a cozy blanket in the morning on my oversized chair ...
01/11/2024

Good morning!!
Lately it’s been my favorite thing , to curl up with a cozy blanket in the morning on my oversized chair and do my morning devotions and gratitude time before my boys wake up for the day.
Cold mornings just make it even more cozy ☺️
With a hot cup of coffee ☕️
One of my goals this year is to study some of the Books of the Bible in depth and learn more about them. I’d be curious to hear from you all , what is your favorite book of the Bible currently ?
Let me know in the comments below. ⬇️

#2024

Happy new years !! 🎉 Who’s excited for 2024 ? 👋🏻 I love words ! (Ironically 😄) I’d love to hear your word for 2024 If yo...
01/02/2024

Happy new years !! 🎉
Who’s excited for 2024 ? 👋🏻

I love words ! (Ironically 😄)
I’d love to hear your word for 2024
If you have one.
Extra points if you have a Bible verse or motto to go with the word.
You’ll find my word of the year below.⬇️
And I’ll add the verses in the comments.

Let’s hear yours as well 💗

#2024

Every year when Dec 6 comes around , I turn on the song “ Gone too soon “ by daughtry . And let the tears flow… My baby ...
12/06/2023

Every year when Dec 6 comes around , I turn on the song “ Gone too soon “ by daughtry . And let the tears flow… My baby would be 7 years old today …. So many emotions and memories flood me. It takes me back to seeing those two pink line for the first time. I wanted to be a Momma so much !...

Every year when Dec 6 comes around , I turn on the song “ Gone too soon “ by daughtry . And let the tears flow… My baby would be 7 years old today …. So many emotions and memories flood me. It take…

As the Holidays are right around the corner , My mind is on Jesus’ birth a lot. Sometimes we get so caught up on the bus...
11/30/2023

As the Holidays are right around the corner , My mind is on Jesus’ birth a lot. Sometimes we get so caught up on the busyness of the season that we forget to pause to reflect on the true reason for the season. Are we pausing long enough to share with our children the meaning of it all , or do they only know of Christmas as a time of lights , Christmas trees, presents , candy and food ?...

As the Holidays are right around the corner , My mind is on Jesus’ birth a lot. Sometimes we get so caught up on the busyness of the season that we forget to pause to reflect on the true reason for…

This is a verse that has really stuck with me lately ...So often we (or at least I do) get so caught up in what we want ...
11/10/2023

This is a verse that has really stuck with me lately ...
So often we (or at least I do) get so caught up in what we want to see happen , the end result. But then when it doesn't happen right away we get discouraged, and distracted. We want things to happen in our timing and in our way , how we think it should go . But how many of us (pry most if not all) can look back and see where so many times in the past if things would have actually played out how our own mind wanted it to, it would have not gotten you to where you are today? Would we have experienced the Blessings and Growth we have today if we wouldn't have walked through the failures and the pain of the past , where things didn't turn out how we wanted them to. It hurts to walk through those hard storms , sometimes it's the last thing we wanna do.

But God... We get to choose to trust in an all knowing , always faithful God , We get to choose to not grow weary in doing good , no matter how hard or how long the battle may be. We get to wake up and make a choice of how our day will be or how our response will be.

If your in the season of hard right now , I just want you to know that I care ! You are valuable and loved. Don't do life alone, reach out to someone, let them be there for you. God created you for an amazing purpose , your here for a reason!

Much Love~ Have a Blessed Weekend!!
~Marilyn

I walked through the house and around every corner it felt like something was gonna jump out and grab me. When I stood a...
10/11/2023

I walked through the house and around every corner it felt like something was gonna jump out and grab me. When I stood at the kitchen sink it felt like something was looking over my shoulder. My heart was pounding hard. My body got chills. I tried to push the feeling away. I tried to fight off the fear , to shake off the thoughts....

I walked through the house and around every corner it felt like something was gonna jump out and grab me. When I stood at the kitchen sink it felt like something was looking over my shoulder. My he…

http://proverbs16haven.com/2023/08/21/the-blame-game/
08/21/2023

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It is so easy to blame those around us when things start spiraling out of control. If my husband would only do this I wouldn’t be this way or if he only changed this habit then I could finally be h…

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