Celebrate Recovery At Lovers Lane United Methodist Church

06/02/2026

better days are coming.

05/29/2026

A lot of “soft addictions” are less about the thing itself and more about the state we’re trying to regulate underneath it. Shopping, scrolling, sugar, caffeine, constantly checking your phone… they often function like tiny emotional life rafts. Temporary relief. Temporary stimulation. Temporary comfort. 🛶🌊

This is one of the topics I cover frequently with my students in class, how humans naturally move toward whatever helps us feel more soothed, connected, energized, distracted, rewarded, or emotionally buffered. The brain is not “bad” for doing this. It’s adaptive. The problem is when the coping strategy starts replacing the actual need beneath it.

Sometimes what looks like “lack of discipline” is actually exhaustion. Loneliness. Understimulation. Emotional deprivation. Chronic stress. Unprocessed overwhelm. A nervous system searching for regulation in the fastest place it knows how to find it.

Awareness matters because it shifts the question from: “Why am I like this?” to: “What is this behavior trying to do for me?”

And that question tends to open far more doors than shame ever will. 🌱

05/23/2026

Feed your spirit more than your feelings.

A spiritually grounded person cannot be easily shaken by emotionally unstable seasons.

05/23/2026

05/21/2026

🤎

05/21/2026

Amen for us codependents

05/21/2026

oh the places you’ll go.