09/05/2026
“The promise, made when I am in love and because I am in love, to be true to the beloved as long as I live, commits me to being true even if I cease to be in love. A promise must be about things that I can do, about actions: no one can promise to go on feeling in a certain way. He might as well promise to never have a headache or always to feel hungry.” -C. S. Lewis
This past month, August 17th to be exact, Angela and I celebrated 13 years of marriage. I’m so thankful God brought us together. We have three beautiful kids, Penelope 8, Jack (4), and Margot (2). Angela is my biggest cheerleader and we make a great team. She still laughs at my jokes, most of them anyway...a lot of them...some of them. Angela is intelligent, beautiful, and filled with a particular type of regal grace that you would know what I’m talking about if you’ve ever been in a room with her. Marriage is a wonderful thing, I highly recommend it.
We had the above C. S. Lewis quote read at our wedding. I love this quote because it reminds me, it reminds all of us, that life is about commitment, not just feelings. Feelings are wonderful, but it can be dangerous to rely too heavily on them. How many people “feel” something special during a worship service only to think something is wrong with their relationship with the Lord when the next time they’re worshiping they don’t “feel” the same way. It’s dangerous to chase a feeling.
God created feelings, but our faith is rooted in facts and the promises of God. Like C. S. Lewis says elsewhere, if you always felt in love then there would be no need to make a promise. Tim Keller wisely wrote that it is not the strength of our faith that saves us, it is the object of our faith that saves, namely Jesus. Your salvation is not based on how saved you feel, but on the promises of God.
Feelings are great, but they can be subjective. We can misread and misinterpret situations. We get tired, hungry, cranky, angry, and all of the feelings in between. We are all sinners saved by grace pressing on in our individual races that God has called us to.
Be encouraged today, regardless of how you feel. Faith is not feelings. Faith is substance. Faith is based on a promise. Our faith is sure because of His promise.
So, no matter how you’re feeling, remember the promises you’ve made. Remember the promises that He’s made. Rest in that.