10/27/2023
The most recent response by Senior Pastor Ryan Lowery to allegations of control and spiritual abuse resulting from the long held practices of Dwell Community Church is problematic for a number of reasons. Church leadership continues to insist that hundreds of stories brought by former members of experiences within the church that resulted in enduring, life-long trauma are “exaggerations,” “misunderstandings,” or “lies.” He states in his response that his church wishes those raising voices of concern against the organization “the best.”
Leaving a high control or abusive organization can be an incredibly painful and life-altering experience, and yet hundreds of members of have made the difficult decision to leave or were excommunicated or shunned when they failed to meet the group’s often untenable standards. These are individuals who joined a church out of their deep longing for a relationship with God and left with the message of Dwell leaders ringing in their ears: if you leave here, you leave God; if you leave here, you answer the call of Satan, you arrogantly reject spiritual authority, you tear down your beloved relationship with the almighty, you give up the good fight, you cannot cut it with the spiritual elite who have given up more than you, if you leave here you lose the only community that will ever truly love you and the only place where you may find purpose and meaning and true peace. If you leave here, you lose your friends, you lose your family, you lose the years you gave to this church, you lose your hope and your certainty. IF YOU LEAVE HERE WE WISH YOU THE BEST.
Here is a clip from IndoctriNation Podcast with Rachel Bernstein of David Hayward - better known by his online persona nakedpastor - where David describes the loss he experienced in leaving a church as well as the pain he has ministered to in others who have experienced this spiritual trauma.
Dwell Community Church fosters an environment that makes this crushing spiritual trauma an inevitability for many of its followers. The church reels in young people and takes advantage of their idealism and pure devotion to God, later wishing them the best as they leave the group lost, broken, and alone. Rather what Ryan Lowery perhaps meant to say in his response was, “Am I my brother’s keeper?”
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/indoctrination/id1373939526?i=1000632567307
https://rss.com/podcasts/spiritwatch/
https://leavingdwell.com
https://www.xenosisacult.com
https://www.dwellchurchcolumbusisacult