09/09/2026
WHAT REAL CORRECTION IS SUPPOSED TO DO
We've been conditioned to think that weighing in on someone else's life is always a bad thing. Just the thought of it doesn't feel good.
Calling out something in a friend's life is really about helping them deal with the challenges, the struggles, and the sin they're carrying. The whole aim is to build them up, not to tear them down.
The version we're afraid of is the opposite. My whole aim is to tear you down so I can build myself up, to make myself feel better. I find things in your life to judge so I can feel better about mine.
Real correction sounds different. I want to make distinctions so I can build you up and come alongside you, but it doesn't work unless you first look at your own life. So what would you find in yours?