06/05/2026
Whose is Sitting at the Table?
In this Sunday’s Gospel there are several stories unfolding within the reading, but Matthew the tax collector caught my attention. Jesus comes upon Matthew the tax collector and says, “Follow me.” Matthew doesn’t hesitate; he simply gets up and follows. Jesus then sits down for a meal, and we learn that Matthew, other tax collectors, and sinners are invited as well. I wonder what it was like for those tax collectors and sinners to be invited to share a meal with Jesus. People knew who Jesus was, knew he was special. Being invited to eat with others may not seem like a big deal—unless you are never invited to the table. That is exactly what happened at this meal.
Those gathered around the table with Jesus were marginalized. In their culture, because of their status, gender, occupation, or physical or mental health condition, they were ignored or excluded.
They knew it, and so did those who considered themselves socially “better.” For those shunned by society, this invitation was a very big deal. It was equally shocking to the Pharisees, who learned that these “undesirables” were invited while they were not.
Gathering for a meal is about more than satisfying our appetites. It is an opportunity for conversation, strengthening relationships, and simply enjoying the company of others. Some of my best moments have been spent talking, laughing, and learning over a meal with others. I wonder what the Pharisees and the tax collectors might have learned about one another if they had simply sat down together and shared a meal. What if they had set aside their assumptions and prejudices and engaged in honest conversation?
It sounds simple, doesn’t it? But in reality—then and now—it isn’t as easy as we might think.
Breaking down barriers is essential because everyone is a child of God. What Jesus demonstrated with the tax collectors, and throughout his ministry, is that rankings, social classes, and hierarchies are human-made. They are not Jesus-made.
Church can be the same way. Some people have been hurt by the church. Others are suspicious of religion. Some don’t believe they are welcomed. Maybe we need to be more intentional about inviting people to our table—the Lord’s table. After all, the number one reason people attend a new church is because they were invited by someone they know.
Who should you be inviting to church? An invitation may be the only thing standing between you and someone who is curious about Sherwood but doesn’t know how to take that first step.
Bring a friend to church this Sunday or invite a friend to watch the service with you online. See where it leads—it might surprise you!
See you Sunday, whether in person or on Facebook Live. Either way, everyone is welcome!
Peace, Mother Nancy
