04/01/2026
Matthew 26: 1-16
The Scent of Grace
Every year on Ash Wednesday, someone presses their thumb to my forehead and leaves a cross of ash and oil. And every year, the scent stays with me longer than I expect. Balsamic. Piney. Earthy. A little sharp. A little sweet. It lingers on my skin, in the collar of my shirt. I catch it hours later, sometimes the next morning, and it reminds me:
You are dust, yes—but you are also held.
I’ve been thinking about that scent this week, because Matthew tells us that just before Jesus walks toward betrayal, toward Gethsemane, toward the cross, a woman breaks open a jar of nard and pours it over him. Pure, costly, extravagant. And nard doesn’t fade quickly. It clings. It seeps into the pores. It follows you.
So I imagine Jesus—
still smelling of her hands,
still carrying the fragrance of devotion,
still marked by tenderness—
as he steps into the night.
As he steps toward the cross; the tomb.
The disciples don’t understand what she’s done. They call it waste. Judas calls it too much. But she knows what time it is. She anoints him as if she’s preparing a body. She blesses him while he’s still breathing. She gives him the last kindness he will receive before the world turns violent.
And that scent goes with him.
Into the upper room.
Into the garden.
Into the trial.
Onto the cross.
Into the Tomb.
A fragrance of love that refuses to leave him.
And suddenly I realize:
Ash Wednesday and Holy Week are telling the same story.
A thumb on a forehead.
Oil on skin.
Hands on feet.
Hair wiping tears.
A cross traced in ash.
A cross raised on a hill.
All of it intimate.
All of it embodied.
All of it scented with love that lingers longer than fear.
Maybe that’s what carries us through Lent—not our discipline, not our resolve, not our perfect observance, but the scent of grace that clings to us even when we forget it’s there.
We walk toward Easter still smelling of the One who has already touched us, already blessed us, already claimed us.
And that fragrance—stubborn as mercy—goes with us all the way.
Shalom
Steve