09/06/2026
Do you remember the buddy system? When I was in college, one of my jobs was working at a school. When we took field trips, we always made use of the buddy system, which meant no one went anywhere alone. Every kid was assigned a buddy, whose job it was to make sure that they stayed with the group and didn’t get lost. The kids took the buddy system very seriously, feeling very comfortable shouting at their classmate who had taken one step out of line. Their heart was in the right place, though, I think. We all need someone to watch our back.
In our readings today, God calls us to watch each other’s backs. He wants us to be on the lookout for our spiritual brothers and sisters, ready to call out the danger that’s heading for their bodies and souls. Like watchmen high on the wall of Israel, we will scan the horizon that is the lives of the people we love. It’s a noble and important task; so why don’t we do it?
Perhaps the number one reason we fail as watchmen is that we don’t want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. We mistakenly think that we should avoid any kind of conflict in our relationships, because conflict is all negative. We tell ourselves that our assigned buddy will surely notice the danger heading toward them before it’s too late. They’ll come to their senses and make the change and we won’t have to do anything at all. God has harsh words for that kind of thinking in Ezekiel 33.
You likely realize that love involves honesty, and any strong relationship includes the ability to say something difficult that someone else doesn’t want to hear. But you say it anyway, not because you’re superior, and not because you enjoy making people feel bad, but because you love them so much. Conflict is necessary when someone we care about is in spiritual danger. God’s buddy system is built on love for Him and for one another. We will raise the alarms and lead our buddy back to the sin and grace message of the Bible. Hand in hand, we will continue our walk to heaven by the grace of God, the cross in view the entire way.