10/07/2025
When I was a kid my mom would attempt to wake me up for school by singing “This is the Day That The Lord Has Made.” It’s a cute song that lends itself to being annoying when sung louder and louder and faster and faster. She did just that. This is the day! This is the day that the Lord has made! I will rejoice, I will rejoice and be glad in it! I know you’re singing along now. As I clenched the covers over my head tighter and tighter she kept singing louder and louder. I didn’t want to get out of bed, but I knew I had to. So, reluctantly, to shut her up, I got out of bed, slammed the door, and got ready for the day. Cranky or not, this was the day that the Lord had made and I could get glad in the same pajamas I got mad in!
I don’t know why, but on days that I know are going to be hard I wake up with this song in my head. On the morning when we had to close a United Methodist Church that had served the people of Denver for 160 years, I woke up hearing “This is the Day the Lord Has Made.” The morning after my beloved 4 year old dog died, it happened again. And the morning of my best friend’s funeral, the hardest day of my life thus far, I heard it once again.
I don’t think that God sends me this fun childhood song to me in difficult times to sugar coat the tragedy and loss I experience, but to remind me that especially on this day, God is with me. The pain I have is loud and it’s annoying and I don’t want to do life today because of it! But, God reminds me that each and every day is a gift that God has made and no matter what there is SOMETHING worth rejoicing and being glad about.
Grief is complicated. It’s messy. It’s ugly and it’s beautiful and it’s everything in between. No one person grieves the same in public or in private and every day looks a little different. So we want to offer a time for those who are experiencing grief and loss to be together in a loving, non judgmental space to share the burden and to find some joy in this day together. Join us for our grief and loss support group any time.
Good Grief will meet on the 2nd Wednesday every month at 2PM at Choteau United Methodist Church. This is a grief and loss support group that is open to anyone wanting to connect with others experiencing loss. Loss is complicated and grief doesn’t just come when we experience the death of a loved one. It includes loss of independence, divorce, pet loss, miscarriage, and so much more. If you are experiencing loss in your life of any kind and would like to connect with others who are on a journey of grief and healing, this group is for you! Please join us! All are welcome.
For questions about the group contact Rev. Kaitlin Elmore at [email protected] or call 903-276-7857.