09/04/2026
🚨 LET ME SAY THIS WITH LOVE… BUT LOUD! 🚨
Sometimes you have to LEAVE PEOPLE AND THEIR EMOTIONS ALONE. Period. ✋🏾
If you have come to me 10, 15, 20 times complaining about the SAME person, SAME job, SAME church situation, SAME relationship, SAME problem…
And I have already told you what you need to do…
…but you keep running right back to the SAME PERSON and the SAME PROBLEM like you’re MARRIED TO THE ISSUE…
🤦🏾♀️ BABY… WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO?
At some point, my ears are going to turn DEAF ➡️👂🏾 because I’m not going to keep having the same conversation with you about a situation YOU keep choosing.
I can pray for you. 🙏🏾
I can encourage you.
I can give you wisdom.
I can support you.
But I CANNOT WANT BETTER FOR YOU MORE THAN YOU WANT IT FOR YOURSELF.
And let me say this part too:
STOP EXPECTING EVERYONE TO COME RESCUE YOU.
You don’t need a cape every day. 🦸🏾♀️
Sometimes YOU have to stand up.
Sometimes YOU have to say NO.
Sometimes YOU have to set the boundary.
Sometimes YOU have to walk away.
Sometimes YOU have to stop going back!
And just because I love you doesn’t mean I’m going to keep listening to the same story while you keep making the same choice.
I’m not being mean. I’m protecting my peace. 💜
Because listen…
You cannot complain about the fire while continuously choosing to sit in it. 🔥
At some point, you have to get up.
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF.
CHOOSE YOURSELF.
PROTECT YOUR PEACE.
And if you’re mad at this post…
😂😂😂 TAKE IT UP WITH GOD, NOT ME.
I SAID WHAT I SAID. 💜✌🏾