11/15/2023
disconsolate /diˈskäns(ə)lət/
adj. without consolation or comfort; unhappy
“Come Ye Disconsolate” by Thomas Moore (stanzas 1-2), Thomas Hastings (stanza 3), and Samuel Webbe (tune) was famously covered by Donny Hathaway and Roberta Flack (Howard Bison) on their 1972 album Never My Love: The Anthology. I have loved this hymn and their definitive rendition since Charles Fusius Gordon gave me a recording of it when I was 15 and as a member of the Voices in Praise Choir.
I am so thankful to my dear friend Dr. Emorja Roberson, DMA (that has such a nice ring to it 😄) for editing this video and singing this message with me.
This song has been on my heart and mind for months and popping up everywhere from book chapter titles (e.g. Jonathan Walton's chapter on the Ministry of Bishop T.D. Jakes in his seminal work "Watch This") to sermonic references and more contemporary music (Rev. Richard Smallwood's "Healing"). I tried to sing it alone, but there is something powerful about witnessing the disconsolation I see in this world with someone else, and with such a beautiful voice and soul at that.
I am also thankful to Joann Reynolds, Brian Hehn, Eve Hehn, Mark Miller, and Jacque Jones, for sponsoring, hosting and teaching me and a group of text and tune writers for the "Writing the Church's Song" writing retreat. It was a time to cherish and appreciate the beauty and power of hymns for our historical experience and our contemporary moment.
During the retreat, Jacque asked "what makes an enduring hymn? What makes it a heart song?" The question really got me thinking. I am still working on some of the pieces I brought to the retreat to see if they might one day be worthy of living rent-free in the hearts and minds of believers. But in the meantime the question applies directly to this song.
I believe "Come Ye Disconsolate" is an enduring hymn because it sees and acknowledges the comfortless, wounded, and suffering people among us and offers divine mercy, sacred space, and a heavenly reassurance that comfort and healing are possible.
It is the disconsolate -- the unhappy and inconsolable -- who need this reassurance the most. And it is the disconsolate whom we often try not to see -- let alone be -- as we make our way towards holiday cheer.
But how can we not? There is so much death. So much sadness. So much war and violence this season. There is disconsolation everywhere we turn.
We feel it in our bodies, our hearts, our souls, and our minds. It makes us weep, grieve in public and in private. It makes us try to numb the pain with whatever we can get our hands on. It calls us to the streets to protest.
There is pain in our midst. From the movement to to the movement to in DC/US city streets, to the grief and loss of loved ones (old, young, and in-between) who have transitioned to the great cloud of witnesses.
But there is also power in acknowledging the pain. Sitting with it. Feeling it, instead of rushing into Yuletide. To quote the title of a new friend's hymn, "There Is Room" for that.
I am thankful to have been raised and formed in Christian communities and traditions that honor the liturgical and civic seasons that invite us to show concern for the bodies of all of God’s people in preparation for the coming of the Incarnate Body of Jesus. AllSaintstide (October 31st – November 2nd), Election Season, and Veterans' Day into Advent invited us to prioritize, welcome, and make space for the disconsolate human bodies in our midst, with our Christian hospitality and our choices as citizens and disciples.
It's about the bodies after all. We feel sadness and grief in our bodies, so in some sense, "the body keeps the score" means "the body tells truth." When the mind plays tricks and the media offers escapes, the Body tells the truth (you'll get that when you get home).
If we aim to worship God in Spirit and in truth, we must honor Body, the bodies in our midst. I pray that this season and this song invite us to acknowledge, welcome feel with, hold space for, and take seriously the disconsolate, in ourselves and others. Maybe then we can experience release.
https://youtu.be/wDsKq5PSgEw?si=A_T5qBoUv17g3UKY
Min. Siera Grace Sings the classic hymn "Come Ye Disconsolate" with Dr. Emorja Roberson (professor, baritone/bass, and editor of this video). Famously covere...