Virtuously Unveiled

04/11/2025

✨ What thought just told you you couldn’t do it?

Was it fear? Doubt? A past failure?
Whatever it was… hold it up to this truth:

"I can do all this through Him who gives me strength." – Philippians 4:13

That voice may resurface, but so does His promise.

You can because He is. 💛

- Shatoya Hunt Aylor🕊️

03/03/2025

🚨 Did you know? 🚨

In 2025, an estimated 154,270 new cases of colorectal cancer will be diagnosed. But here’s the good news....colorectal cancer is preventable when caught early!

Routine screening is the most effective way to reduce your risk. The U.S. Preventive Services Task Force recommends starting screenings at age 45 for those at average risk.

Take control of your health and visit www.getscreened.org for your personal screening recommendation.

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03/01/2025

💙 Honoring My Mom, Fighting for a Cure 💙

My mother, Cornelia A. Jackson, was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer at 57 and passed away at 58. She was a woman of strength, power, and love. She faced her battle with unwavering faith and resilience. Even in the hardest moments, she loved deeply, gave selflessly, and inspired everyone around her.

Her journey ignited my passion for advocating, educating, and fighting for a future without colorectal cancer. That’s why I’m joining End Colon Cancer Coast to Coast, a movement committed to saving lives. Every dollar raised fuels prevention efforts, supports patients, and advances critical research through the Colorectal Cancer Alliance.

This fight is personal. I don’t want another family to experience the pain of losing a loved one too soon. You can help make a difference.

🔹 Donate today to support this cause in honor of my mom: https://impact.ccalliance.org/goblueforCJ
🔹 Share this post to spread awareness—together, we can create lasting change.

Let’s turn grief into action. Let’s fight for a future where colorectal cancer is no longer a threat. Will you join me? 💙

In Memory of Cornelia A. Jackson: Advancing the Fight Against Colorectal Cancer

03/01/2025

💙 Go Blue for CJ – Support the Fight Against Colorectal Cancer

Family & Friends, I need your help! I’m raising $500 by March 31, 2025, in honor of my mother, Cornelia A. Jackson, to support colorectal cancer awareness and research. Every dollar makes a difference in the fight against this disease!

🔹 Why? Colorectal cancer is preventable, yet it remains one of the deadliest cancers. Together, we can help save lives through education, early detection, and advocacy.

🔹 How Can You Help?
✅ Donate today: https://impact.ccalliance.org/goblueforCJ
✅ Share this post to spread awareness!
✅ Wear blue this March to show your support!

Your generosity honors my mom’s legacy and helps others in their fight. Let’s make an impact together! 💙

In Memory of Cornelia A. Jackson: Advancing the Fight Against Colorectal Cancer

11/19/2024

Part 2: Bracing for Impact During the Holiday Season

The holidays can still be a time of connection, even in grief.
Whether it’s lighting a candle in memory of a loved one or starting a new tradition that honors their legacy, there are ways to bring hope and meaning into this season.

💌 In my latest blog, I share 5 heartfelt ways to navigate the holidays while keeping your loved one’s memory alive.

📖 You’ll find:
✨ Creative ideas to find joy while experiencing pain
✨ Biblical encouragement for finding peace
✨ Practical steps to turn loss into love-filled moments

🌟 This season, let’s honor the past while embracing the present with hope.

➡️ Read more and share how you’re creating meaningful moments this year: http://virtuouslyunveiled.com/2024/11/19/part-2-bracing-for-impact-during-the-holiday-season/

Together, we can find joy❤️
- Shatoya Hunt Aylor

The holiday season has always been a blend of joy and reflection for me. There’s something magical about gathering with loved ones, celebrating traditions, and soaking in the beauty of the season. …

11/19/2024

"I Will BRACE You for the Impact"

💔 Grief hits hard—but God promises to BRACE us for the impact.

When my own grief felt overwhelming, God whispered a powerful promise to my heart: “I will BRACE you for the impact.”

In my latest blog, I share how this promise isn’t about avoiding the pain but about discovering His strength in the middle of it. It’s a message of hope, healing, and anchoring yourself in God’s love no matter how heavy the waves feel.

📖 Highlights include:
✨ The power of Psalm 34:18 in navigating grief
✨ Practical steps to find strength and comfort

🌟 If you’ve been navigating loss, this is for you.

Let’s lean into God’s promise together. ❤️
- Shatoya Hunt Aylor

➡️ Read “I Will BRACE You for the Impact”

Have you ever had one of those days where you were completely focused on your daily routine, and God stepped in, redirecting your attention? Well…that was me a few months ago. As I prepared for my …

11/11/2024

🇺🇸New Blog Post for Veterans Day: Honoring Service, Love, and Legacy

This Veterans Day, I'm honoring my mother, whose dedication and courage in service continue to inspire me daily. Her legacy is one of strength, love, and unwavering faith—a beautiful reminder of the true meaning of sacrifice.

Join me in honoring all our veterans as we reflect on their impact and the values they leave behind. Let’s celebrate their legacy with gratitude and purpose. ❤️
- Shatoya Hunt Aylor

📖 Read the full post here

This Veterans Day, I find myself reflecting on the life and legacy of my mother, a woman whose military service shaped not only her journey or my journey, but also the lives of those around her. Sh…

10/25/2024

Grief and joy—two emotions that often feel worlds apart, yet can coexist in the most beautiful way. In my latest blog post, "Navigating Grief and Joy: Finding Comfort in God’s Presence," I share a personal experience of how God's presence brought me peace during a time of deep grief.

🌿 PLUS: I’ve created a FREE workbook to help you reflect on your own journey, find strength in God's promises, and discover joy in the midst of sorrow.

Visit https://virtuouslyunveiled.com/2024/10/25/navigating-grief-and-joy-finding-comfort-in-gods-presence/ to read my blog and grab your workbook!

Isn’t it strange how grief shows up at the most unexpected times? Let me share my experience while vacationing with my husband in Antigua. After 19 years, we finally decided to celebrate our …

10/08/2024

🌿 New Blog Alert: The Sweetness of Grief: The Healing in Being Present 🌿

Grief has a way of catching us off guard, doesn’t it? Last week, I experienced a moment that stirred up cherished memories of my mom, reminding me of the power of presence and what I call “proxy moments”—those unexpected times when we feel the love we've lost through a new connection. 💛

In my latest blog post, I share how caring for my mother-in-love during her recovery brought back a flood of memories, deepened my longing, and also opened my heart to new ways of finding comfort.

✨ If you’re navigating grief, longing for a loved one, or simply looking for encouragement, I hope this reflection offers you a bit of peace and a reminder that God holds us through it all.

👉 Read the full story and join the conversation here: https://virtuouslyunveiled.com/2024/10/08/the-sweetness-of-grief-the-healing-in-being-present/

Let’s lean into those moments of grace together. - Shatoya Hunt Aylor

💛 Feel free to share your own experiences in the comments—I’d love to hear from you.

Last week, I had the privilege of helping my mother-in-love as she recovered from knee replacement surgery. I’m grateful for how smooth and speedy her recovery has been. During our time together, a…

09/26/2024

🌿✨ Exciting News! ✨🌿

I’m thrilled to announce the launch of my new blog, Grieving in Glory, on Virtuously Unveiled! This space is where I’ll be sharing personal reflections, biblical insights, and hope-filled encouragement for navigating grief and loss. Join me as we explore how faith and grace carry us through life's most difficult seasons. Let’s journey together toward healing, peace, and God’s glory.

New Posting: "Making Space for Gratitude in Grief"
https://virtuouslyunveiled.com/2024/09/25/making-space-for-gratitude-in-grief/

Visit Grieving in Glory and let’s walk this path together. 💛

“Grief is not here to take us hostage, but instead to reshape us in some fundamental way, to help us become our mature selves, capable of living in the creative tension between grief and gratitude.…

06/02/2024

When Hagar exclaimed, “You are the God who sees me!” I felt that in every fiber of my being.

My response today and forever more is, “Father, you see me & I see you too!” 🙌🏽

Abba Father sees us with understanding and compassion ♥️

Genesis 16:13🕊️

05/17/2024

Life is practice. You practice who you are every single day. Is it the version you truly want to be?
- Michelle Obama

Each day provides an opportunity for self-reflection and growth. We should evaluate whether our actions and attitudes reflect the person we aspire to be. If not, it's never too late to make changes and pursue our best selves. As Romans 12:2 reveals, transformation begins with allowing the Holy Spirit to change our mindset which leads to a deeper understanding of our purpose and potential.

“Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”
‭‭- Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭2‬ ‭NLT