09/07/2026
Sermon Given on Sunday, September 6, 2026
Matthew 22:2-14
The Kingdom of Heaven as a Wedding Feast
One of the most common Scriptural images for what heaven is, is the image of a wedding feast. And here, in today’s Gospel, we heard read aloud just such a passage. So, for these next few minutes, let us focus on this idea of the kingdom of heaven being like a wedding feast. And to do so, I will make three points about wedding feasts that are relevant to how we conceive of our life with Christ for all eternity.
A wedding feast is something that we are invited to. You can’t just show up at a wedding feast and expect to be let in. So, how does this relate to God interacting with mankind and offering us salvation? Well, to be with Christ does require an invitation. He invites. We accept. God makes the first move toward us. He is the initiator. He is in charge. And here is the invitation, from the mouth of the Savior Jesus Christ Himself. “Come to Me, all you who are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” We must be invited in order to find ourselves in an unending relationship with our Creator in His kingdom, but part of the good news of the Gospel is that this invitation goes out to each and every single person. In other words, there is no race or ethnicity or nationality, no social status, no mental ability, no age, no level of righteousness, there is no group of people anywhere, who are not being invited by God to have a faithful relationship with Him, so that He may lavish upon them the riches of His Kingdom and everlasting life. As we heard in the Gospel reading, after the first group of invited guests made up various excuses and failed to come, then the invitations were sent out to all so that, as Jesus taught, both the good and the bad were welcomed into the feast. The call of God to come to Him in faith is universal, without limits and for all mankind. That’s the first point.
The second point is this: although all are invited into the banquet, that is, to a fulfilling relationship with God, there is preparation and care that must be taken. The part of the parable that mentions the man who was not dressed properly and who was therefore thrown out of the banquet, is an extremely important part to focus on. Who goes to a wedding reception dressed in ripped shorts and a dirty t-shirt? To do so would be an offense to the one hosting the event. In like manner, when we are invited by God to His eternal banquet feast through our faith in Jesus Christ, we cannot expect to just show up, rudely bang on the door, and be allowed in.
The improper attire of the man in the story is symbolic of lack of care for one’s own soul. It suggests that the person who cynically relies upon the good graces of God to let everyone in, while showing no respect to God or desire to conform His will, is not going to be able to feast in God’s kingdom. Going back to point one. All are invited. The call of the good news of Jesus Christ is meant to be shared with all, even, and especially the bad, the sinners. But, how we conduct ourselves once we receive the invitation, that really matters. If we hear the Gospel and presume, without faith, that just because we heard that God is merciful, it doesn’t really matter how we live our lives, we are mistaken. We must take care of our soul in a responsible way and make preparations, in this life, to be with God forever in the next.
But even that is not enough. No, we could clothe ourselves in virtues of piety and still find ourselves on the outside of the banquet, looking in. How is that so? Well, because of the desperate state of the human condition. All of our righteousness is as filthy rags, according to Holy Scripture. We cannot, on our own, make for ourselves, an acceptable wedding feast garment, no matter how much good we do. In other words, good works don’t earn us salvation. We can’t, by ourselves, make our souls presentable to God. God gives salvation freely, and our only acceptable wedding garment is Jesus Christ Himself. Through being united to the Lord in baptism and in faith, we “put on Christ” as the Scriptures teach. He becomes our covering. He is our uniform. He washes us clean. He becomes our beauty. He heals us from the inside so that we are acceptable and can come to the feast and participate in the celebrations. Jesus Christ, and He alone, makes it possible for us to enjoy our Creator God forever.
A few more thoughts on this idea of our relationship with Christ being likened to putting Him on, as somebody puts on their clothes. People that work in occupations where a recognizable uniform is required, understand the power that a uniform has. Those in the military, police and fire service, clergy, and many other fields, wear special clothes when they are “on duty.” It signifies to others, what their role and responsibility and authority is, and it reminds the one wearing that uniform of those same things. The way we dress can have a profound effect on how we act and how we and others regard ourselves. If we think of Christ as our covering, as our wedding garment, as our uniform, as our beauty, then we will be encouraged to act and think and speak in ways that are befitting of Christ.
The third and final point is this. Our salvation is full of joy. When people gather to eat and drink after attending the wedding of a couple whom they love and care about, it is a joyous, celebratory event. It is more than shallow happiness. Something marvelous and very profound has happened at that wedding, and now, it is time to celebrate that new, joyful reality. Heaven has been mischaracterized by some, as being a place, merely of sensual delights. But it is so much deeper and more substantial than that.
Our greatest desires and yearnings will be fulfilled. In being with God and all those who love Him and have faithfully served Him, we will come to a new understanding of who we are and what our purpose is. We will experience, love and beauty and truth and goodness in a way that we never imagined was possible in this life. And what’s more, this process will never end, but will be continuous without ever being boring or stagnant. Life in God’s kingdom will be dynamic and full of surprises. It will be a never-ending, deeply satisfying journey to continually draw closer to the Inexhaustible One, an explosion of love, a refreshing fountain of goodness. This is what it means to have life in Christ. And because God loves us so much, He gives us the opportunity to begin to experience a taste of all this goodness even in this life. This is what a faithful life in the Church can be, a sneak preview of the glories of the resurrection.