02/12/2024
Good morning, I love you, have a Blessed day.
Morning Prayer, Monday,
FORGIVENESS IS HARD
"We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love."
One of the things that I have discovered over my life is it is hard to forgive. When someone wrongs you on a real high level, the Bible tells us to forgive them. In fact, it says we should forgive not just seven times, but seven times seventy. That is a lot, especially when we can't even forgive one time.
On a number of occasions when someone has done me wrong, I knew that I should forgive them and believe me I tried but it wouldn't work. Every time I saw them, I thought about what they did, and the process started all over again. So how do you get pass that?
Well, to be honest, there is only one way, God.
I remember one incident in particular. I was what they call, "hotter than fish grease." Forgiveness was the farthest thing from my mind. You see, it takes a lot to make me mad, and when it happens, I used to would plant a flag in that spot and stay there for years. God had to work on me in that area.
I had to understand that all by myself, I could not forgive and forget, but if I pulled God into the equation, I got there a lot sooner. God is the only one who can help us to make peace with situations that have us angry, mad, upset, and unwilling to forgive.
Think about Jesus. Judas betrayed him in one direction, and Peter betrayed him in another. People lied on him, talked about him, spit on him, beat him, and God only knows what else, and yet, Jesus was able to forgive them all.
Now, true, I know we are not Jesus but when we commit in our hearts to follow God's Word, then we pull up from within us, what we need in order for us to get into that place of forgiveness.
Why, because it really is true that "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me [forgives me, heals me, protects me and keeps me. ]
Prayer:
Father God, in those times when forgiveness truly is hard, please help me. Amen
Scripture:
Matthew 6:15