05/22/2026
God’s approval is all our hearts need.
In high school, I had the privilege of being part of an incredible girls’ basketball program. I pushed myself at every practice, stayed late to get in extra shots and never wanted to let my teammates or coach down. I craved that feeling of knowing I had earned their approval and trust.
We had dreamed about this moment, and now it was finally here — the state championship. As the clock ticked down, everything seemed to slow. I caught the pass, scanned the court and saw our post player double-teamed. There was no way to get the ball to her. The clock was running out, so I took the shot. It arced high, clean and rotated beautifully, then swished through the net.
We were state champions! It was everything I’d dreamed of — Or was it?
Something unexpected happened in the days after. Instead of the lasting joy I thought I’d feel, there was a persistent emptiness I couldn’t shake. The recognition was fun, but it didn’t last. Soon, everyone else moved on. The pressure to please everyone again was already weighing in.
Looking back, I realized I wasn’t chasing a trophy — I was chasing approval from other people.
In Mark 1:11, right before Jesus starts His public ministry, God speaks these words over Him: “You are my beloved Son; with you I am well pleased.”
Jesus hadn’t done anything yet — no miracles, no sermons, no mission to the cross. Yet God spoke words of approval over Him simply because of who He was — God’s Son.
“You don’t have to earn His love, approval or affirmation. It’s already yours.”
“For am I now trying to persuade people, or God? Or am I striving to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.” – Galatians 1:10
Article by Melissa Motes, FCA Arkansas Red River Ambassador