12/20/2025
CHRISTIANS NEED TO STOP SAYING THIS!
Your friend just lost their job.
Your sister's engagement ended.
Your parents' business failed.
And someone—well-meaning, trying to help—says:
"Don't worry! When one door closes, another opens!"
Or the Christian version:
"When God closes a door, He opens a window!"
It sounds encouraging. It sounds spiritual. It sounds biblical.
But it's not.
And when Christians repeat this phrase, we're not offering hope—we're spreading prosperity gospel theology.
Let me show you why this saying is dangerous, where it actually came from, and what the Bible really says about closed doors.
WHERE THIS SAYING CAME FROM (Hint: Not the Bible)
"When one door closes, another opens."
This phrase is often attributed to Alexander Graham Bell, the inventor.
He allegedly said:
"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."
That's motivational advice.
It's not theology.
It's not Scripture.
It's not a promise from God.
It's a positive-thinking cliché that Christians have baptized with spiritual language and turned into a false promise.
IT'S NOT IN THE BIBLE!
Search your Bible for "when one door closes, another opens."
You won't find it.
People sometimes try to connect this to:
📖 Revelation 3:8 (ESV):
"I know your works. Behold, I have set before you an open door, which no one is able to shut."
But context matters.
Jesus is speaking to the church in Philadelphia about an opportunity for gospel ministry—not personal career opportunities, relationships, or life plans.
This verse has nothing to do with God automatically providing alternative paths when your plans fail.
WHY THIS SAYING IS DANGEROUS
1. IT'S PROSPERITY GOSPEL THINKING
The implication behind "when one door closes, another opens":
✅ God always provides an alternative
✅ Closed doors are always followed by better opportunities
✅ You'll never experience lasting loss
✅ God's primary goal is your comfort and success
But the Bible says:
📖 John 16:33 (ESV):
"I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world."
Tribulation. Not "temporary setbacks with guaranteed better outcomes."
📖 2 Timothy 3:12 (ESV):
"Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted."
Persecution doesn't come with an "open window" escape plan.
2. IT MINIMIZES REAL SUFFERING
When you tell someone experiencing:
Job loss with no prospects
Infertility with no biological children
Death of a loved one
Chronic illness
Ministry failure
Devastating betrayal
"Don't worry—when God closes a door, He opens a window!"
You're saying:
"Your suffering isn't that serious because something better is coming soon."
But what if nothing "better" comes?
What if the door stays closed?
What if there is no window?
Does that mean God failed? Does that mean they lack faith?
No—it means your theology was wrong.
3. IT MAKES GOD'S PURPOSE ABOUT YOUR COMFORT
The "door/window" theology assumes:
God's primary concern = Making sure you eventually get what you want
But Scripture says:
📖 Romans 8:28-29 (ESV):
"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son."
Notice verse 29: The "good" God is working toward is Christlikeness, not comfort.
Sometimes the closed door is God's good plan—and there's no window because you're supposed to learn contentment in the hallway.
📖 Philippians 4:11-12 (ESV):
"Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need."
Paul learned contentment in BOTH closed and open doors.
4. IT IGNORES BIBLICAL EXAMPLES OF CLOSED DOORS WITHOUT WINDOWS
Let's look at what the Bible actually shows us about closed doors:
PAUL: THE DOOR STAYED CLOSED
📖 2 Corinthians 12:7-9 (ESV):
"So to keep me from becoming conceited because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, a thorn was given me in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to harass me, to keep me from becoming conceited. Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me. But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.'"
Paul asked God three times to open a window.
God said no.
The door stayed closed.
God's answer? "My grace is enough. Stay weak so My power can be displayed."
Where was Paul's open window?
There wasn't one. And that was God's perfect plan.
JOB: NO WINDOW FOR MONTHS (MAYBE YEARS)
Job lost:
His wealth
His ten children
His health
His wife's support
His friends' comfort
📖 Job 7:3-4 (ESV):
"So I am allotted months of emptiness, and nights of misery are apportioned to me. When I lie down I say, 'When shall I arise?' But the night is long, and I am full of tossing till the dawn."
Job suffered for months—possibly years—with no relief.
Where was the open window?
There wasn't one.
Eventually God restored Job—but Job didn't know that would happen. He had to trust God in the darkness with no visible alternative.
📖 Job 13:15 (ESV):
"Though he slay me, I will hope in him."
That's faith in the closed hallway—no window required.
JOSEPH: TWO MORE YEARS IN PRISON
Joseph was falsely accused, imprisoned, and forgotten.
📖 Genesis 40:23 (ESV):
"Yet the chief cupbearer did not remember Joseph, but forgot him."
After Joseph interpreted the cupbearer's dream and asked to be remembered, the cupbearer forgot him.
Joseph stayed in prison for two more years.
📖 Genesis 41:1 (ESV):
"After two whole years, Pharaoh dreamed."
Where was Joseph's open window?
It didn't come for 730+ days.
Eventually God elevated Joseph—but Joseph endured years of closed doors first.
WHAT THE BIBLE ACTUALLY TEACHES
1. GOD IS SOVEREIGN OVER CLOSED DOORS
📖 Isaiah 45:7 (ESV):
"I form light and create darkness; I make well-being and create calamity; I am the LORD, who does all these things."
God opens AND closes doors—according to His will, not our comfort.
📖 Job 12:14 (ESV):
"If he tears down, none can rebuild; if he shuts a man in, none can open."
When God closes a door, it stays closed—until He decides otherwise.
2. GOD'S GRACE IS SUFFICIENT EVEN WITHOUT ALTERNATIVES
📖 2 Corinthians 12:9 (ESV):
"But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.'"
Sometimes God's answer is:
"No window. No new door. Just My grace. And that's enough."
3. CLOSED DOORS TEST AND REFINE YOUR FAITH
📖 James 1:2-4 (ESV):
"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."
Closed doors aren't accidents. They're instruments of sanctification.
God uses them to:
Test your faith
Produce endurance
Strip away false security
Teach you to trust Him alone
Make you complete
You don't need an open window. You need refined faith.
4. TRUST GOD IN THE HALLWAY
📖 Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV):
"Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."
Notice what this doesn't say:
It doesn't say "He will immediately provide an alternative."
It says "He will make straight your paths."
As you walk in faith—one step at a time—God guides you.
But the timing, the method, and the destination are His, not yours.
WHAT TO SAY INSTEAD
❌ DON'T SAY:
"When God closes a door, He opens a window!"
✅ DO SAY:
"God is sovereign over this closed door. Trust Him even when you can't see what's next."
"God's purposes are good even when they include suffering and waiting."
"Sometimes God closes doors without immediately opening new ones—and His grace is sufficient in the waiting."
"God might be teaching you to trust Him in the hallway, not just through open doors."
"His plan might be the closed door—and learning contentment without alternatives."
JOHN PIPER: "GOD DOESN'T OWE YOU A WINDOW"
John Piper says:
"God is not obligated to give you an open window just because He closed a door. Sometimes the closed door IS His good plan, and your job is to trust Him without demanding explanations or alternatives. That's what faith looks like."
PAUL WASHER: "THE GOSPEL ISN'T PROSPERITY"
Paul Washer teaches:
"The prosperity gospel tells you that God always has a better plan waiting around the corner. The true gospel tells you that God's plan might include prolonged suffering—and that suffering is producing in you an eternal weight of glory. Stop expecting comfort. Expect Christlikeness."
R.C. SPROUL: "GOD ISN'T YOUR LIFE COACH"
R.C. Sproul taught:
"God doesn't owe you an explanation. He doesn't owe you a backup plan. He's God. You're not. And sometimes the greatest act of faith is trusting Him when every door is closed and no window is in sight. He's not your life coach—He's your sovereign King."
CONCLUSION: TRUST GOD WITHOUT GUARANTEES
Here's the hard truth:
God might close the door and leave you in the hallway.
There might not be a window.
And that might be exactly what you need.
Because faith isn't trusting God when you can see the alternative.
Faith is trusting God when you can't see anything at all.
📖 Hebrews 11:1 (ESV):
"Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen."
Not seen. Not guaranteed. Not visible.
Just faith.
So stop repeating pop-psychology clichés disguised as biblical promises.
Stop setting people up for disappointment when God doesn't provide the "open window."
And start teaching what the Bible actually says:
God is sovereign. His grace is sufficient. Trust Him in the darkness.
📖 Psalm 46:10 (ESV):
"Be still, and know that I am God."
Not "Be still until I open a window."
Just: "Be still, and know that I am God."
💬 Have you heard this saying used in church?
Have you experienced a "closed door" with no immediate alternative?
How did God teach you to trust Him in the waiting?