09/14/2019
This week we experienced a death in our family.
Rather than go into a lot of detail please just suffice it to say that a person that I was introduced to as my nephew and he most certainly is the blood of my brother died this past week. His name is Sunny Griffith and I think he is an exceptional man. I am so sad to say that I only knew him briefly being able to meet him at our family reunion. His wife Adrienne and his 4 beautiful children are wonderful people. I knew my time to know Sunny was going to be brief as he was battling stage 4 lung cancer but he was winning! He didn't show signs of being ill and although we were all very concerned for him, at least I felt that I had some time to get to know this interesting, kind, generous, fun man. In the back of my mind I was hoping to be able to participate with my brother and his son as we took the kids fishing and became family together.
That all changed last Saturday.
Sunny was an author, and having returned from a writers enclave in Europe, Sunny began feeling unwell and was admitted into hospital. He underwent a surgery for an issue unrelated to his cancer but complications set in and as his health deteriorated he experienced a heart attack and was unable to be revived.
I found out about Sunny's passing a few days after it occurred and have been speaking to the lord about things a couple of times a day. First to ask him to open the gates wide and prepare for his joyful homecoming, but then to ask God for his help in processing this amazingly painful experience. I only met Sunny once and yet in that brief time we bonded as family. I have felt his passing so much and I think it's because of the type of man he was and the sheer sadness I feel that any future trips, partys, dinners, frankly just time we could have been able to spend together are just...gone.
Tonight at his viewing as I spoke to his amazing wife she said "I am so glad you were able to meet him!" I agreed and said "but I wanted so much to get to know him." Adrienne put her arm around me and said "You will, I will tell you all about the amazing man that he is."
Lord, please keep Sunny busy until we all make it up to be with him again in your glory.
Sunny Christopher Griffith
"If You Had a Super Power, What Would it Be?"
Sunny Christopher Griffith returned to his heavenly home on September 7, 2019 in Salt Lake City, after battling cancer.
He was born to Karen Redhair Paras on October 27, 1977 in Salt Lake City.
Sunny was a devoted member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He served a mission in Santiago, Chile. He always went out of his way to make other people's day, whether it was a waitress, a cashier, or a stranger on the street. He felt that he "couldn't wait to meet my Savior, fall at his feet, and bathe them in my tears."
Sunny worked for 20 years in the US ARMY. As a Major, he was a passionate advocate for SHARP-the Sexual Harrassment/Assault Response and Prevention unit. In that capacity, his kindness and compassion were deeply appreciated.
Sunny especially loved his family and always had one of his four children riding on his strong shoulders. He was a fan of the "American Ninja Warrior" show and was hoping to participate as a contestant next season. He loved rock climbing, dancing with his daughters, and he adored his sons.
Sunny also loved amusement parks, Dungeons & Dragons, and was a promising writer working on a fantasy novel with his mentor David Farland. He liked to ask people, "If you had a super power, what would it be?"
He is survived by his wife Adrienne Lee, his daughters Adelaide (8), Ruby (5), and his sons William (3) and Samuel (4 months); also by his parents Karen and Richard Paras, and Richard and Sandy Bean; his brothers Tony Fink, Justin Griffith, Rich Bean, Jeff Bean, and Edward Bean; his grandmother Marvella White; and his beloved aunt and uncle Connie and Brent Pendleton.
Loved ones who preceded him in death were his grandfathers Elwood White and Arlen Redhair, along with his uncle Paul Redhair.
His viewing will be held Friday, September 13th from 6:00-8:00 p.m. at the Rose Canyon 3rd Ward Chapel, 6869 West Vista Springs Drive, Herriman, UT.
Funeral Services will be held Saturday, September 14th, at 11:00 a.m. at the Rose Canyon 3rd Ward Chapel, with a viewing prior to services from 10:00-10:45 am..
Thank you to the many people who cared for him at the University of Utah Health Center and Huntsman Cancer Institute.
Online condolences may be shared at www.jenkins-soffe.com
Published in Deseret News on Sept. 12, 2019
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