09/08/2026
"How do you discern God’s call in your life?
I talked with women at seminaries across the country and asked them. Their stories taught me three important things about women, leadership, and calling:
First, personality does not predict leadership ability. Leaders are not always extroverts. They’re not always loud or strong-willed or dreamers. God calls the loud and the quiet, the verbal processors and the introspective, the figureheads and the behind-the-scenes strategists. Your personality may be different than your pastor’s or your favorite teacher’s, but that doesn’t mean you’re not called.
Second: no story of calling is the same. When it comes to calling, many of us want a burning bush. We want a clear word from God, an easy path, and no roadblocks. However even in Scripture, no story of calling was the same. Moses had a burning bush, but Joseph had a dream, Mary had an angel, and David had Samuel. Every story was different, and the same is true for us.
Third: Calling comes through community. Every woman’s story was different, but they all had this in common: people who supported them. Each woman had a family member, a friend, a pastor, a mentor, or a professor who identified her gifts and helped her cultivate them. It was these affirmations that empowered them to push through their fears and self-doubt.
Is community the only way God calls? Definitely not. But in most cases, your community helps you to see things you cannot see yourself.
If you think you might be called to ministry, but you’re afraid, or you’re unsure, or you doubt yourself, just take a moment to listen. What does your family, friends, pastor, or mentor see in you? Even if it’s only one person, consider taking them seriously. They might be sent by God.
And if you’re still scared, remember this: Moses was too. So was Jonah, Jeremiah, and over half the women I talked to. There is a long history of God calling people who try to talk their way out of it. You are not alone. Thankfully, the same God who called Moses, Jonah, Mary, and Paul, the God who used them to do mighty things in His name, is the God calling you."
by Sharon Hodde Miller