05/07/2026
Sermon and sermon questions for May 10th, 6th Sunday of Easter (Happy Mother's Day and Graduation Sunday!)
Share the Why
(1 Peter 3:13-22)
Dear God,
We thank you for Peter's letter, which reminds us that we are blessed, beloved, and baptized, and that we belong in the family of Christ. Help us to always be ready to share why we believe and have the faith we have. Let us hear the importance of this in today's scripture and in these words. We pray in Christ’s name. Amen.
If you remember from last week, this letter from Peter to the early Christians was written to those experiencing trials, being persecuted, and socially marginalized. What they are going through probably ranges from mild ridicule to harsh treatment and suffering due to severe oppression by Roman authority. This is a small section of that letter that outlines codes by which Christians are to live, instructing them on how to live in holiness, in relationships, in moral conduct, and with respect toward others. The overarching theme is steadfastness in faith amid adversity, grounded in hope. Through this encouragement, Peter is inspiring those he writes, to hold fast to that faith in the midst of adversities, for their reward will be great in heaven. Within this scripture, Peter uses the story of Noah to show water as both a saving and destructive force. Through this story and its symbolism, Peter shows that baptism represents salvation as spiritual rebirth and the washing away of sins. He is trying to emphasize baptism's significance as a ritual in the Christian faith, demonstrating commitment to following Jesus, acceptance of salvation, and its role in our testimony. This is a message of hope, redemption, and the ultimate triumph of good over evil, challenging us to reflect on our beliefs and actions and urging us to stay true to our faith, even in the face of adversity.
However, how many of us have faced real adversity? Sure, we may have all had to deal with unfair situations or losses, worked through difficult circumstances, or been down and out, but how many of us have truly had to deal with great adversity? Adversity is defined as, “a state or instance of serious or continued difficulty or misfortune.” We also do not know what it is really like to be persecuted for our beliefs. We are free to worship as we desire. Therefore, as Peter shares with his fellow Christians, we should not fear or be intimidated, because who will harm us if we are doing the good of God, but even if we do suffer, we are blessed, because we know our salvation through Christ. But Peter also shows that although Christ suffered and died for our sins, enduring his own adversity, this was not a sign of divine displeasure but quite the opposite. It was a life lived in righteousness and respect for God that brought resurrection and honor to Christ. God does not necessarily wish suffering upon us, and as Christ followers, we should not seek suffering for its own sake; rather, we may expect suffering, and we need to be equipped to deal with it. Christ triumphed over suffering, and so can we. If not in this earthly realm, in the heavenly. The ultimate reward for our faithfulness through suffering.
However, considering suffering in our lives today, where might we see the implications of being Christ followers that cause us to know suffering? For many of us, this is a difficult question to answer, because we often find our Followship is not full of hardships. But allow me to share a slightly different perspective, but before I do, keep in mind that even though we may not face real adversity, we must still be ready to share the why behind what we believe. Sometimes the strongest witness to our faith is not found in easy moments, but in the suffering we endure and the hope we continue to carry. So, recently, I was in a discussion about why there is suffering in the world and, if there is, how there can be a God. I said suffering is due to free will. God gave us free will, and because of that, suffering is in the world. I got a lot of pushback on this. One person exclaimed, how could I say that, because is it free will for a child to suffer with cancer or an infant born dead? I explained again that, because of free will, sin entered the world. Even though it may not seem right or fair that all must suffer because of another’s sin, beginning with Adam, the truth is that because of free will, we all fail in some respect or another. Because of the universal failure, innocent suffer, good people suffer, the undeserving suffer, it is a stain upon our world, and until we all subject ourselves to God’s will, there will remain suffering. Thus, not all suffering is caused by an individual choice, but rather because we live in a fallen and broken world shaped by humanity’s separation from God. After this response, there were a few more questions about why I can believe in a God who allows suffering to continue. So, I shared a story. I explained that I lost my second child to a miscarriage, certainly not my free will, but a moment of suffering I had to endure. That alone was difficult enough, but the miscarriage caused a lot of damage, and without reconstructive surgery, I would not be able to have any more children. Even with it, my chances of having a viable birth were about 5% because only one side would be able to be reconstructed. However, even after reconstruction and a possible pregnancy, I would need a hysterectomy, because my risk of cancer due to damage to the other side was serious. So, unhappy news upon unhappy news. And I’ll be the first to admit that for a little while after this ordeal, I was very sad, even a little doubtful of God’s love and providence, although I continued to try to believe, and prayed to God for a miracle, like Sarah and Abraham, while my husband and I discussed what to do. Finally, the decision was to just have the hysterectomy to prevent me from having more problems. Despite this being a choice we made together, my husband left me afterward, because he desired to have more children. Not my free will, but his. Sadder yet, a few months after he left, he took his own life. But I was the one who suffered because of it. All of it! Yet, in the end, my faith and trust in God did not fail. In many ways, because of this trial, this suffering, my faith grew stronger and more assured. After sharing this story, there was a stunned silence. I do not know whether I swayed anyone to trust God, but I hope so. I certainly offered my testimony and shared why my faith is what it is. But this is one way we may see that suffering in our faith, even in a country where we do not have to worry about persecution, suffering is still a reality; it is also an example of why we must always be ready to share the why of our faith.
However, for us in this country, suffering can also mean a willingness to renounce certain things for the sake of our faith. Perhaps giving up certain activities we enjoy to serve God. Or that the rewards we will receive for sharing our why will not necessarily be immediate. And it might even mean living a life that is the opposite of what we thought would be our “dream life.” This is, in part, because, as Peter tells us, a future reward justifies those who suffer now. However, this type of attitude can lead to a refusal to confront the injustices and suffering of this world. Another reminder that our situations as Christ followers in America are quite different from those in other places of the world, as well as for those to whom Peter writes in this letter. That does not mean his words are not equally important to us. It is just that we must view it from a different perspective and challenge what we know or even believe is right in order to maintain a clear conscience. And not live safely, but to suffer for the sake of God and others. And this might be thought of as zeal, which can be good or bad. As mentioned earlier, in God’s providence, we do not have to fear our foes. We find this idea across the scriptures. Paul, in Romans 8:31 tells us, “If God is for us, who can be against us?” Again, not meaning we are immune to suffering or should seek suffering, but rather, our suffering is temporary and will be vindicated. And this happens when we become imitators of what is good, of Christ. Thus, we must have zeal or passion for what is good and living in Christ. But we must be sure what is good according to God, not what humans may believe is good. Here, the Greek word agathos means virtuous and benevolent, morally upright. For instance, seeking vengeance is not in line with God’s goodness. Thus, we are to live what we preach, which may be the reason why so many Christians fail to bring others to God. This is because we don’t feel the heat of transformation, as the early Christians did. And I am not talking about the heat of the Holy Spirit here, but rather, what it means to really share the why of our faith, and have to struggle because of it.
But being prepared to share the why of our faith is what is required of all of us, no matter what life throws at us. Because when we find peace as we walk through the storms and struggles of life, others will notice. They might even wonder what your secret is. Therefore, we must develop a mindset rooted in faith and confidence in God’s goodness for us, so that we are always prepared to give hope. We must become knowledgeable about the hope we have in Christ. That knowledge equips us to confidently answer questions and engage in discussions with those seeking hope and encouragement.
So perhaps the question before us today is not whether we will ever suffer, but whether we will remain faithful when life becomes difficult, confusing, or painful. Peter reminds us that our hope in Christ is not dependent upon perfect circumstances, easy answers, or a trouble-free life. Our hope rests in the One who suffered, died, and rose again for us. Jesus never promised that we would avoid hardship, but he does promise that suffering will never have the final word. And because of that promise, we are called to live differently. We are called to live with courage, compassion, gentleness, and hope. We are called to be people whose lives reflect Christ so clearly that others begin to ask, “Why?” Why do you still trust? Why do you still serve? Why do you still hope? And when those moments come, may we be ready to share the reason for the hope within us.
Not with arrogance or anger.
Not with fear or judgment.
But with gentleness and respect.
For our testimony is not simply found in the words we speak, but in the lives we live, the grace we show, and the faith we hold onto even through suffering. Because when we continue to trust God in the midst of adversity, others begin to see that our faith is real, our hope is alive, and Christ is present even in the hardest moments of life. So may we leave this place strengthened in faith, confident in God’s promises, and prepared to share the why behind our hope whenever the opportunity arises. And may our lives point others not to ourselves, but always to Jesus Christ, our source of hope, peace, and salvation. Amen.
Sermon Questions for Share the Why
1. Peter encourages Christians to “always be ready to give an answer” for the hope they have in Christ. How comfortable are you sharing the “why” behind your faith with others?
2. The sermon discusses suffering as part of living in a broken world shaped by humanity’s separation from God. How have difficult experiences in your own life shaped, challenged, or strengthened your faith?
3. The personal testimony in the sermon showed that faith can remain strong even through grief, disappointment, and unanswered prayers. Have you ever experienced a time when suffering deepened your trust in God rather than weakened it?
4. Peter says believers should respond “with gentleness and respect.” Why is the manner in which we share our faith just as important as the words we use?
5. The sermon suggests that modern Christians may experience suffering differently than the early church, sometimes through sacrifice, service, or living differently from society’s expectations. What are some ways Christians today are called to “give something up” for the sake of following Christ?
6. When people observe your life, what do you hope they see about your faith in Christ?