02/04/2026
AFTER THOUGHTS - Excuse Me!
“Excuse me!” That’s a statement we hear all too often these days.
Jesus talked about excuses in a parable found in Luke 14. He told how “a certain man prepared a great banquet and invited many guests. At the scheduled time of the banquet he sent his servant to tell those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is now ready.’” Their response? “But they all alike began to make excuses.”
Those invitees in Jesus’ parable remind me of the story I heard once about a pastor who moved down south to pastor a congregation of southerners. He had been born, raised, and trained for the ministry in the hustle of the northern states. Now he is down south and soon discovers that southern folks are very different from the folks he served up north.
One very obvious difference between his northern neighbors and the people down south was the friendliness of southern people. Everybody was so nice and accommodating. He decided that outreach and evangelism should be easy and effective so he started knocking on doors and inviting everyone to his church for worship. Almost everyone he invited said they would attend.
That Saturday he prepared his best sermon for the Sunday service. He was convinced he would have the largest congregation of worshippers ever. Imagine his disappointment when none of those who promised to come showed up. He didn’t understand and he asked some of his members why those who told him they would be in church that Sunday didn’t bother to come. One of his long-time members explained the difference between his former neighbors up north and people in the south.
“You may ask a northerner to church and he will rudely tell you he is not going to attend. Southerners are not that way,” he explained. “They will not be rude, so they tell you they are coming and then they do not come! And, when you confront them for not keeping their promise, they will give you an excuse because they are too nice to refuse.” Maybe the folks in Jesus’ parable thought they were being nice by offering excuses.
How does God look at excuses? The answer is found in Romans 1:20 which declares that God and all His attributes “are clearly seen” and therefore mankind is “without excuse.” “Excuse me” may be an acceptable lubricant in human relationships, but it will not be effective before the Lord on judgement day. After all, God’s callings and invitations “are irrevocable.” (Romans 11:29) That means excuses are unacceptable.