08/19/2026
Pastors Encouragement Wed., August 19 
“When To Speak”
By Pastor Joel Wegner 
I am learning a lot about timing these days. Specifically, I’m learning about the timing of when to speak and when not to speak.
The experts say that the average person speaks anywhere from 12,000 to 16,000 words a day. WHOA! That’s a bunch of words. They say that the average person speaks 100 to 150 words a minute.
With so much speaking, we better be careful with WHAT we say, and WHEN we say it. Our words are powerful! They can edify or damage. Colossians 4:6 reminds us that our speech should be always with grace and seasoned with salt. James 3 tells us a lot about the power of our tongue. That little body member can do much evil! In fact, only God can tame the tongue. And, in taming my tongue and my speech, I’m looking to the Lord for more help these days with the timing of my words.
In my roles as a Christian, a husband, a parent of an adult child, a pastor, a boss, a friend, etc., I know my words matter. And, I certainly am one that has the tendency to talk too much! My dad, Pastor Marvin, was just the opposite. He talked very little compared to me and my mother! 😂 Pastor Dad often got on to me about talking too much. But recently, I’m not so sure I’ve let the Lord control the TIMING of my words the best!
So, here are verses that I am meditating on to help guide me (In 3 categories):
1. Different Seasons for Speech & Silence
* Ecclesiastes 3:7: Solomon writes that there is “a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak.” God places purpose behind every shifting phase of human life including when to speak. And we need His wisdom of when to do that.
2. Discernment and Timing for speaking truth
* Proverbs 15:23: “A man finds joy in giving an apt reply, and a word spoken in due season, how good is it!” Knowing how to answer at the exact moment brings gladness.
* Proverbs 25:11: “A word fitly spoken Is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.” Truth is most effective and beautiful when delivered in the proper season.
* Proverbs 15:28: “The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things.” Careful thought precedes wise, truthful speech, unlike rash responses.
3. Danger of Hasty Words
* Proverbs 29:20: “See thou a man that is hasty in his words? There is more hope of a fool than of him.” Speaking without waiting or thinking demonstrates a lack of basic wisdom.
* Proverbs 10:19: “When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is wise.” Sin is found in a multitude of words. Limiting my speech helps me avoid sin and error.
Lord, please help me say the right words today, at the right time, for Your glory and the good of others!
In Christ Alone,
Pastor Joel Wegner
Galatians 2:20